At noon, the accompanying light rain went home to change clothes. People in their forties still eat like children. Inadvertently, the food fell on the skirt, and the stain was terrible.
Fortunately, her home is close to where she works. When I first entered her house, I found a huge pink bow tied to the door handle of the bathroom. The door of the bathroom is a big mirror that fell to the ground. Bows are playful and elegant against the mirror, adding a lot of color to the room.
"How beautiful!" I blurted out, Xiaoyu smiled and walked to the bathroom door, raised her bow, and the mirror at the door handle cracked. "My buddy slammed the door last time and smashed this place to pieces." In this way, we smiled and said nothing.
It seems that every couple who have been married for many years will have some years' marks more or less.
They witnessed the ups and downs of two people along the way. Some are torn doorknobs, some are broken glass corners of cupboards, and some are scratches on the floor ... These nicks of life have long since passed away, even decorated with bows, and may have parted ways and become eternal injuries.
The average couple, a few years before marriage, is the most frequent years for their children named "personality" to fight. No one shows weakness, no one refuses to accept anyone, and how eager for happiness, how easily angry, until they hurt each other and hurt themselves. All kinds of people don't like it, and all kinds of people want to change. After repeated trials and failures, one party finally felt tired and bored, and life slowly returned to calm.
As Lin Yutang said: Marriage is like shoes. Wear it for a long time and it will naturally fit.
Time can resolve many contradictions and heal past wounds.
Those old wounds stay where they are, not increasing or decreasing, but the days are still flowing. It's just that time has taught you to get familiar with it and avoid its sharpness.
Slowly know, let go of yourself, no longer care about formal nothingness, trivial details, a little confused about family, happiness is around; Look down on the gains and losses, and the mood suddenly becomes clear.
He used to bury himself in playing games after work, and you would get angry and think that he ignored you and didn't love you. Now, after a hard day's work, you will each do what you like at night, and even if you don't say anything, you will feel extremely comfortable. How much you need a relaxing space after a hard day's work.
Because you know, you are compassionate, as if you know the "blank space" in Chinese painting, which is the aesthetic feeling of time correction.
Gu Cheng said: The grass is bearing seeds and the wind is shaking the leaves. It is beautiful to stand without talking.
Even without gorgeous packaging, life is still the most touching gift.
Those knots that can't be untied, just tie a bow.
Slowly understand: a lot of love, silence is better than sound.
Meet in the sky, stay with people.
In this era of love rising with the wind, you and your love remember to take your time.