The typical practice is that the man comes to the woman's house for the first time and is accompanied by a matchmaker, which is called "Shangtou" to show the woman's appearance and personality. The woman's family was very satisfied and asked her to go to the man's house for the first time, calling it "visiting the door." At this time, the man's parents and relatives want to give gifts to the woman. Because it is the first time to meet, giving gifts is directly simplified to giving money to the woman. When both parents are satisfied, they enter the stage of talking about marriage. After setting a good day, the man and his mother went to the woman's house for help. Of course, they can't go home empty-handed. Naturally, they brought a bride price. The bride price depends on the customs at that time and the man's income.

On the afternoon of the wedding, the wedding team of the man's family came to pick up the bride. At this time, there must be an elder in the man's team to symbolically say a few words to the elder of the woman's family. Basically, it is the woman's elders who teach the man's elders and say a few words as symbolic stars. Then, under the leadership of the woman's elders, they worship the ancestors of the woman's family, burn incense and kowtow. When the bride goes out, the brother-in-law or gay men will set off firecrackers in the hall. At this time, when the bride goes out and passes by her neighbors and every household in the same village, firecrackers will be set off at home to send her away. A village can't let her parents lose face too much. Every time a woman sets off firecrackers, the man's family will also set off one as a response. However, it is impossible for a married man to win her farewell by setting off firecrackers. After the bride left the village, she got on the bus with the groom and went straight to the man's house.