Alas, it's time to call the roll in the morning when you hear the drums of the fifth watch; Riding to Lantai is like the wind in the wind. Qin Guan, the fairy son of Queqiao, is clever, and the flying stars spread grievances, and both silver and Chinese are dark.
On the seventh day of autumn dew and autumn, it is time to meet, mostly those who are together in the world, but the appearance of husband and wife. Common complaint against acacia, tender feelings like water, meet each other as if it were a dream, when it is hard to see the bridge.
As long as two people love us to the end, why covet my Heron? Jiaxu is ash, and Millennium is frost.
The so-called Iraqis are on the water side. Tracing back from it, the road resistance is long; Swim back from it, in the middle of the water
After a long time, the Millennium is not clear. The so-called Iraqis are in the water.
Tracing back and forth from it, the road is blocked and broken. Swim back from the inside and swim in the water.
Jia Cai, peace and prosperity have not passed. The so-called Iraqis are in the water.
Go back and follow, the road is blocked and turn right. Swim back from the inside and swim in the water.
2. The Book of Songs Nan Zhou Yao Tao China traditional marriage Yao Tao, burning its China. The girl is going to get married and be happy at her husband's house. Peach blossoms are in full bloom and there are countless fruits. The girl is going to get married, and the heir who gave birth early is going to make a fortune. Peach blossoms are in full bloom, and green leaves are lush and never fall. The girl is getting married, and Comix is in harmony.
Yao Tao is one of The Book of Songs, National Style and Nan Zhou. It is a wedding song, that is, a song to send the bride. On the wedding day, the bridesmaid sent the bride out, and everyone walked around the bride to the groom's house, singing: "Peach blossoms wither and burn its glory …" The red peach blossoms are more beautiful than the bride's beautiful appearance. How can the family be unhappy when they marry such a girl? Fruitful peach trees mean that the bride will give birth to more children for the male family (the old idea is that the more children, the happier), which will make the family prosperous. Peach trees with dense branches and leaves will make the family prosperous forever. Throughout, red peach blossoms, plump and delicious peach fruits and lush peach leaves are used to compare the beautiful youth of newlyweds, wishing their love as beautiful as peach blossoms and as evergreen as peach trees. This poem adopts the method of overlapping chapters and sentences, and each chapter has the same structure, only replacing a few words, so it is repeatedly praised and lingering; Beautiful words are integrated with the beauty of the bride and the joy of love, which very aptly renders the festive atmosphere of the wedding.
It's also my favorite poem. Not as good as Li Shangyin's untitled melody, Qiu Si in Ma Zhiyuan's artistic conception and Cui Hu's peach blossom poems. I like it only because I personally like the tradition of China-blind date!
Speaking of blind date, I always think of another poem: boudoir, written by Zhu Qingyu, a poet in the Tang Dynasty: "Last night, the red candle stopped and I went to visit menstruation at dawn. After putting on makeup, I whispered to my husband, is thrush deep and fashionable? " Think about it, hazy feelings, starting from blind date, the future bride, secretly hiding behind the barrier, looking at her husband who spends her life with her, the kind of heartbeat and shyness that we modern people will never feel. Before the blind date, we had never even heard of each other, let alone met. We got married first and then established our feelings. This is an ancient way of love. In a daze, the whole life is so shaky. Modern people think that the ancients were unhappy and tied their lives at will. Actually, what about ourselves?
The May 4th Movement began to advocate free love. Perhaps this is the progress of an era. I always believe that everything in the world has advantages and disadvantages. The greater the advantage, the greater the hidden disadvantage. Maybe this is what Buddhists call conservation. Because of free love, people today know that love is so hurtful. I think ancient poems about love are mostly about missing, recalling or remembering ghosts. In the eyes of the ancients, the model of love is nothing more than the fabricated butterfly lovers, Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing in Peacock Flying Southeast, and Sima Xiangru and his wife. People don't know how much they love, just as we never know how beautiful it is. We just rely on our modern people's imagination to add a halo to praise, comfort and deceive ourselves!
So, is modern love great? Dedicated love is born of affection, develops from promiscuity and ends in unrequited love. The ancients didn't have a mobile phone or the Internet, and their contact information was far less developed than that of modern people. Because of this, the ancients were less likely to cheat and change their minds. Without the temptation of the outside world, there will be less unnecessary betrayal. Those lonely people often fantasize about the Goddess Chang'e flying to the moon's romance and think about Gua Tian's heartbeat and vicissitudes of life. In fact, who knows? In the face of trivial necessities, romance is only romance, heartbeat can only be heartbeat, and commitment is only commitment.
I don't agree with the ancients' polygamy, but I appreciate the ancients' proposal of being faithful to their lives. In this world, there is really no background of blind date, too little.
Just like me, I always think that heartache is only a moment, memories can be forgotten, and time can change everything. In fact, time is only time, but I am still me!
3. 1 What are the poems to congratulate "getting married"? It is called Qin Jin's horse, not Wang Xielang.
-Du Fu's "Send Goro to Marry Dali" 2. In heaven, I hope to be a lovebird and grow up together on the earth, two branches of a tree ...-Don's Song of Eternal Sorrow 3. This woman is not a husband and wife, even a fairy.
-Tang Bai Juyi's "Jian Peijun Yin" 4. Pull out the new lotus water, and the son of Wei family believes in talent. -Don Luo Qi's Preface to Bi Honger's Poems 5. There are beautiful women in Yutang, and the moonlight is charming.
-Tang Cui Hao 6. When you, my love, ride a bamboo horse, run in circles and throw your childhood. We live together in an alley in Qiantang, both young and happy.
-Tang Li Bai's Long March 7. Good luck, a perfect match between heaven and earth. 8. Put down the spring scenery on your eyebrows and pity the groom in front of you.
-Song Chen Shidao's "Two Songs of Qingping Music" 9. Yesterday was Lanzhou, now it's silk. A pair of immortals is a couple, always together.
10, charming, in the layer wave. Build a toilet, have their own natural state, love shallow painting double moths.
-Song Liu Yong's Xi Twelve 1 1, phoenix pillow curtain, two or three years, like a fish like water to know each other. Good weather, good scenery, deep compassion and love are nothing more than doing what you want to do.
-Song Liu Yong's Listening to Horses 10. Sansheng stone marks a good marriage, a loving couple, and a colored thread. The spring scenery is boundless and flowery, and the romance is lingering. 1 1. Beautiful flowers, drunken buildings in spring, colorful toads and fragrant nights.
-Song "Two Concentric Two" 12. On this day, when the new poem is in the forest, I can't help but be happy. The painted green eyebrows are United for a hundred years. 13. Fortunately for Qin Jinhui today, I taught my husband and wife to go to the makeup building early.
-Tang Luchu's Make-up 14. Do thrushes have depth? How to make a pair of mandarin ducks into a book? -Song Ouyang Xiu's Nan Gezi 15. Guan Yu's poems are full of music and Tao Ran, the wind of Yuxi spreads far and near, the brocade account is affectionate, and the bridal chamber is warm and touching. 65438+
17. Yaner's wedding is a wonderful year, with friends and relatives fighting for a good marriage, pearls as close as honey, and the Marine Police Mountain Alliance as solid as a rock. 18. Don't weave hibiscus into a tent, and the golden thread is opposite to the mandarin duck.
The ground is decorated with carved shoes, and the candles are moved to the brocade tent in stages. The weaver XiHuang hides the candlestick, and the two children are even homesick.
-Don Happy Princess Flowers and Candles.
4. What are the ancient poems that wish young people to get married? The mica screen is dark and the long river is sinking.
Chang 'e, I must regret eating the elixir, and now I am alone, in the blue sky, singing every night.
Many people may think that Chang 'e stole her husband's elixir and flew to the moon. When I was a child, I didn't know this story. Later, when I learned this story, I seemed to think that Chang 'e had done something wrong. But now, I have changed my mind. what is love ? There is no love in this world, only interest.
I once saw an article written by a netizen. In his article, I compared marriage to two people falling into the grave of love. That wedding was the funeral before their love fell into the grave. Maybe it's a little exaggerated, but I think it's completely correct.
There are also three legends in China-the love story of the Weaver Girl, the Seven Fairys and the Three Notres. I used to think that their three immortals and their mortal husbands were so great that they sacrificed everything for love. But now, I think they are so stupid, why pursue that illusory love? If these three immortals look around, they can see that there are many people on earth who are better than their husbands. Why not become immortals for them and suffer every day?
Almost all TV dramas now have love stories, but directors often beautify the male and female protagonists in TV dramas, and many people are willing to die for love. It may be because of TV series that I used to think how great people's love is, but later I saw or learned a true love story from books. There is no romance in TV series here, and I won't die for the person I love, but there is nothing wrong with thinking about it. Who will die for an irrelevant person?
China has changed too many traditions. What should be changed and what should not be changed have been westernized, but there is one thing we can't learn from westerners-there are three kinds of unfilial, and there is no big deal. Once young people reach marriageable age and don't get married, old people will keep urging their children to get married quickly. Once young people get married and have children, old people will let their children have a second child after a while. Why is China poor now? Many people in the west do not have enough to eat and clothes are not warm. The main problem is too many people. I forgot that young people in any western country are single. I usually admire the traditional customs of China, but westerners are right about it.
I used to hope to live a happy life when I grew up, like in TV series, but now, I want it more than before. Why do people get married and how good it is to be single all their lives? Although I am still young, I don't know what love is like, but one true love story is enough to reflect it.
5. An ancient poem describing Xiuhe Fu 1, "Married"
anonymous
Lying awake in bed that day,
Iraqis like to be ticket sellers when they get married.
Zhu Yu, with a hairpin on her head and a rose,
Red embroidered phoenix.
Distant dreams will only add new dreams and tears,
At this time, I recalled my previous makeup.
Later, I realized the spring breeze.
I'm afraid I'm in deep love.
2. "Peach Blossom is Right"
anonymous
Peach blossom is good, Zhu Yanqiao, phoenix robe mandarin duck coat.
Spring is full, willow branches are new,
It's sunny outside the city, birds outside the window,
Great, great, great.
East wind sends, fragrant clouds welcome,
Silver hairpin, gold cymbal, bead curtain.
Pour sake, add red candles,
Beautiful, beautiful makeup,
Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful.
He Xiuli's dress is a kind of wedding bride's dress in China in Qing Dynasty. The production method of He Xiu's clothing is more complicated, and now it is most famous for Chaoshan handcraft. Because of the popularity of the 200 1 TV series "Orange is Red", the clothes worn by the heroine He Xiu (played by Zhou Xun) are called "He Xiufu" by some people.
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He Xiu clothing style:
The "coat" of He Xiu's clothes refers to the double-breasted clothes on the upper body, while the "skirt" refers to the long skirt on the lower body. With the changes of the times, the styles of skirts and dresses have also changed greatly.
Before the 1970s, skirts and dresses were "black dresses and red dresses", and later they evolved into "red dresses and red skirts". Previous jackets were cut in Tang suit, with straight shoulders, wide body and buttons. Now the popular style has been improved to suit shoulders, waist, middle sleeves and zipper design, which has become more fashionable and comfortable.
The sleeve design not only highlights the beauty of the bride's body, but also expresses gratitude to relatives and friends for giving gifts, so as to see the bracelets, bracelets and other gold ornaments worn by the bride.
At present, two kinds of gowns can be seen on the market: straight clothes pendulum and water wave foot clothes pendulum. Straight clothes pendulum has always been the most traditional style.
As the name implies, the water wave foot dress pendulum will have a wavy shape and a special style. The embroidery work is relatively complicated and the price is more expensive than the straight dress pendulum.
6. I am eager for wedding wishes. Congratulations on finding a good home! The wedding wishes the seas run dry and the rocks crumble, with vast territory and abundant resources. Qi Fei's wedding wishes beautiful things again and again, and Qi Fei's wedding wishes a happy and beautiful family.
Wedding blessing: Candle Candle smiles at love birds bridal chamber, the first plum blossom. Wedding wishes: Today is your wedding day. On behalf of my family, I congratulate you and wish you happiness and longevity! Wedding Blessing Golden House Celebrates Cai Feng, Wedding Candles Celebrates Lapras 0 Wedding Blessing Best wishes for a century of harmony and eternal unity! The highest state of two of a kind is relative discontent. I wish a couple truly love each other and meet each other forever, and congratulate them on their wedding anniversary! Wedding wishes it's your turn to invite you to dinner. The wedding wishes men respect women and men's equality. Husband respects women and husband and wife. Wedding wishes. You are a perfect couple. Now that we are married, we need to tolerate and take care of each other in the future. Bless you! The wedding wishes that you are a natural couple, and now you are finally married. I wish you a lifetime of love! The wedding wishes a thousand years of marriage and a hundred years of sleep. Born with both talents and looks, he only envies Yuanyang but not immortals.
Wedding wishes make this touching poem ring the bell of happiness. May you two love each other forever and grow old together! Wedding wishes make this touching poem ring the bell of happiness.
I wish you happiness and love you forever. Dear friend, I wish you a happy wedding! The desire to get married is that you can take a boat in ten years and sleep with a pillow in a hundred years.
Finding her in the vast sea of people is clearly the fate of thousands of years ago. I wish you both happiness and harmony. The desire to get married is that you can take a boat in ten years and sleep with a pillow in a hundred years.
Finding him/her in the vast sea of people is obviously the fate of thousands of years ago; How can countless coincidences not be the result of meticulous carving on Sansheng stone? Dear friends, take care of this fate with your heart. Wedding wishes bless you and laugh for you, because today, my heart is as happy as yours! I wish you a long and happy life! Grow old! Wedding wishes. Hey! Dude.
Married so soon. I can't come because of something.
But I still want to sincerely wish you a happy wedding! Be careful of your health! At the wedding, I wish the phoenix tree branches and the lotus flowers stand side by side. The wedding wishes to love each other, be happy forever and grow up with one heart and one mind. May you two love each other more than the sea! Wedding blessing has worked hard for half a lifetime and contributed for decades. Congratulations on your remarriage in this harvest day. As the saying goes, "In order to see the sun, despite his glory, the day lily came late."
Happy wedding and early birth! Bless your wedding with sincere friendship and bless you with thousands of gifts! Marriage wishes from knowing each other to loving each other, from loving each other to knowing each other. People often say that the fairy couple is you! I wish you love each other every year and know each other every year! May love fill your sweet life and make every day in the future as bright and happy as today! I wish you a happy wedding. May you two be friendly and in love. Love will last forever and increase day by day! Wedding blessing: May you two entangle each other with love, be considerate and care for each other, and share joys and sorrows in the future.
I wish a century of harmony and unity. Wedding blessing: I hope you can embrace the sweetness of love forever.
7. Poems about the Moon in my heart forever's Poems Ancient Marriage Customs in China August 15 Du Fu in the night.
The full moon flies in the mirror and returns to the heart to fold the sword.
Turn the tent and travel far, climb the laurel and ascend to heaven.
The waterway is suspected of frost and snow, and the forest is covered with feathers.
At this time, I look forward to the white rabbit, and I want to count the autumnal equinox.
Palace poetry
Zhu Qingyu
The flowers are in full bloom, but the palace is closed; Beautiful ladies-in-waiting, standing on the porch watching spring.
County magistrate Liu, everyone wants to talk about the sadness in the palace. No one dares to reveal his depression in front of the parrot.
Marriage customs from ancient times to the present
The age of marriage in ancient times was different from dynasty to dynasty. In the Spring and Autumn Period, men can get married at 20 crowns, while women 16. He also said that "men marry at 30 and women marry at 20" so as not to delay time. It is clearly recorded in "Han Hui Di Ji": "Women who are over 15 to 30 years old and do not marry, five counts." "Five calculations" is to punish her for paying five times the tax. In fact, the phenomenon of early marriage in ancient China was also very serious. In the Song Dynasty, it was stipulated that "every 65,438 +05 for men and 65,438 +03 for women were married". Ban Zhao Biography of the Later Han Dynasty records that Ban Zhao was "four years old, holding a dustpan and broom in Cao Shi". In the Biography of Shangguan Empress, there is even a record of "being a queen one month later, only six years old". But they are usually around 20 years old.
In ancient times, men went to a woman's house to visit their wives, all at night. "In the Soul of Li Yi's Poems" said: "The faint ceremony is issued." Zheng Xuan noted: "The ceremony of a gentleman marrying a wife lasts for a period of time, so it is famous. Yang goes to Yin, and faints into the three businesses of Japan. " Moreover, "the master is a knight, a petticoat and a donkey, and his entourage is Bi. He takes two rides from the ink cart and holds a candle in front of the horse." In other words, people who marry each other wear black, and horses and chariots also use black. This custom is very different from the wedding custom of marrying the bride and wearing red clothes during the day in later generations. Since the Tang dynasty, the time for welcoming relatives has been changed to morning. According to Tang Duan Shicheng's "Youyang Miscellany", it is recorded: "Courtesy, marriage will be faint, and the yang will go and the yin will come. Today, I pay tribute to Xiao Yu. " Dawn comes. Since then, it has been with you.
In ancient times, the attitude of the new bride was also very particular. According to "Lu's Spring and Autumn Annals", "When Keiko came out, he told people:' People have a new wife, and the woman is here, so it is appropriate to be safe and respectful. "The so-called" cherish cigarettes as gold ",the merchant pointed out:" Cherish cigarettes as gold and describe the bride's state, which can be described as exquisite. However, it is understandable but difficult to explain. Those who are safe and calm; Proud people are cautious; Smokers, eye wave flow is not straight; Charm the walker, no longer shy to retreat, gentle and charming. That is, all brides are just getting started, but if they are, they lose their identity. "
When they got married in the Han Dynasty, they all set up tents with green curtains and held sacrificial ceremonies. The article Shi Shuo Xin Yu Fallacy records: "When Wei Wu was young, he once competed with Yuan Shao to be a ranger. Seeing that people are married, they sneak into the host's garden and cry at night:' There is a thief!' Everyone in Lu Qing is gone. Wei Wu came in and pulled out a knife to rob the bride. "This custom of getting married in Lu Qing continued until the Qing Dynasty, and it was also mentioned in Pu Songling's Strange Tales from a Lonely Studio.
According to historical records, in the Han Dynasty, there was a custom of celebrating the wedding and listening to the house on the wedding night. According to "Han Xuan Di Ji", "Five Phoenix wrote in two years:' The ceremony of husband's marriage is also the greatest favor. Wine and food, so the salute is also fun. There are two thousand stones in this county or township, and intermarriage is forbidden. It is not allowed to celebrate with wine and food, because it is a waste of the ceremony of the township party and makes people unhappy, so it is not for the guidance of the people. The imperial edict of Emperor Gaozu Xuan Di was to encourage people to hold banquets at weddings. According to the biography of Han Wei Yuan's wife, after the couple entered the bridal chamber, they were whispering:
Wei Xiao said, "My brother raised it first, and everyone laughed. Why don't you go first when your sister is not feeling well? " Yes, I said, "My sister's noble behavior is unusual, and she has not been well received. She is not contemptuous, but she did it. " He asked again, "Mr. Nanjun learned the poor way, and his style of writing is the ancestor of ci." What's wrong with his position? " He said: "The Great Sage of Confucius is bound to be destroyed by Wu Shu; Lutz is wise, and Liao Bo. Jia Jun got this, which is suitable for him. " Wei Xiao can't keep silent. The listener outside the account is ashamed.
It can be proved that there was a custom of listening to rooms in Han Dynasty.
In addition, there is a custom in ancient marriage customs that is different from later generations, that is, ancient women are not afraid of remarriage, from the Zhou Dynasty to the Northern Song Dynasty. According to Li Tan Gong, after the death of Confucius' son, "his wife married Wei" added: "Zisi's mother died in Wei, and Zisi cried in the temple. The master came and said,' What's the point of crying in the Confucius Temple after the Shu family's mother died?' Zisi said,' I passed! "I passed," but cried in his room. "It can be seen that the son-in-law of the descendants of saints is also inevitable to remarry. Wei, Jin, Tang and Song Dynasties, the daughter of a famous family remarried. " "The History of the Three Kingdoms, Wu Zhi, Lady Bu" records: Mrs. Bu Sheng and two women, long called Lu Ban, the word "Great Tiger", with a week before and a full hearing after; Don't call it Lu Yu, the word Xiaohu, with Zhu Ju in front and Liu Bian behind. Shang's Textual Research on Social Customs in Past Dynasties quoted Suiyuan Essay as saying: "The princess in Tang Dynasty remarried twenty-three, three married four. "And at that time, whether the ex-husband saw her ex-husband or the latter saw her ex-husband, there was no need to avoid it. After Lu You, a poet in the Song Dynasty, divorced his ex-wife Tang Wan, she once went to Shenyuan and met Tang Wan and her later husband Zhao Shicheng. Tang and Ye Zhao gave Lu You food and drink. As a result, Lu You was moved and wrote a word "Feng Feng" on the wall. (See Miscellaneous Knowledge for details. It can be seen that it is normal for women to remarry in the Tang and Song Dynasties. It was not until the Ming and Qing dynasties that women remarried, and the ethics did not allow it, so there was the saying of chastity archway.