Blind date is a medium for you and her to get to know each other. As for how far you can achieve it, the media don't have to take the blame.
Blind date is not that you can't meet true love, but you are not as lucky as lottery, but you always associate luck with blind date.
To put it bluntly, this is laziness, and it is a whimsical expectation of pie falling from the sky.
You are willing to go on a blind date, mostly because it is convenient and there is no burden to coax girls in circles. Everything is on the table and you can see the finish line directly.
But this is not a deal. If a girl comes up and doesn't talk about feelings, just say how much money you have and how many RVs you have. If she is satisfied, she promises to get married. Dare you get married?
No love can skip the process of falling in love. Those who really get together after a blind date are not together because of the side they saw during the blind date.
In the process of getting to know each other constantly, they appreciate and tolerate each other through the efforts of the day after tomorrow. Blind date is just the beginning.
The real labor-saving place of blind date is that it doesn't take a lot of time to find it, and it can quickly pull two people who don't intersect to a table.
If your idea of blind date is wrong, you will naturally be disappointed with it, treat it as an unreliable stranger date and think it is a money transaction in the name of love.
The chance that a blind date can meet true love is actually very high. You didn't meet it not because you were unlucky, but because you didn't work hard or made a mistake.
People always use "embarrassment" to describe blind date, regard it as a burden, and think that it is just a pair of strange men and women sitting opposite a small shop, crustily talking about their love views and life background. You feel tired because you have a strong sense of role substitution and always regard the girl opposite as your future wife. You are wrong. You should take that girl as your personal word of mouth. Many people have a "try" attitude when dating. If they are interested, they will talk more. If they are not interested, they will be like a deflated ball and want to run away quickly. This performance really sucks. You are deliberately discrediting your image. The reason why you dare to take a cursory look at the flowers like this is because you think that two people are strangers, and after the blind date, they naturally go their separate ways and never see each other again. But it's not that simple. Your performance on a blind date will be seen by girls and kept in mind. She may talk to your introducer or her best friend, and when the news spreads, your comments will be qualitative. Your attitude towards blind date is not positive at all, and you are not active towards girls at all. This situation will gradually spread to everyone who has a relationship with you. So no one wants to introduce girls to you again. Even if some girls have always been interested in you, they will regress because of your comments. If you can realize from the beginning that blind date is actually a display of personal charm, I think you will not be so casual. I also met a girl I didn't like: A has been perfunctory and always used "hmm" to respond to girls' words. B is cynical, complaining that girls are too fat and black to be worthy of what C should talk about, and sharing the social pressure of girls. She just euphemistically expressed inappropriate views when she was apart. After the blind date, men like A and B will be mercilessly vomited, and people think that it is deserved not to find a wife. Have you ever thought about such a chain reaction?
⑤. The chain reaction of blind date
The result of blind date is not important, but its chain reaction, so you should make good use of this opportunity to sell yourself in the emotional market. At this time, we can see the importance of "emotional intelligence". People with low EQ always attach too much importance to their feelings, while people with high EQ always take care of each other's feelings. You may want to say that even if you don't get along, you want to get together and leave a good impression on each other, but the scene is too embarrassing to take the initiative. Why not change your mind? Now that you have made sure that two people can't fall in love, you don't need to be depressed any more. You can relax completely. You can enjoy each other calmly and chat without burden. There is no purpose and I don't care about the result anyway. Maybe chatting, you will find this person interesting and eye-opening. At the same time, your relaxation will also infect the girl, helping her to unload the burden and be more honest. I've asked a lot of successful blind dates. To my surprise, most of these people didn't want to be with each other at the end of the initial blind date. But after a while, they found that this man left a deep impression on themselves and always wanted to know more. After a while, they really came together. So, after the blind date, you also need a cooling-off period. When you calm down, you will realize whether you are interested in this person or not. Since you can't give an answer right away, why not change your mind and show your charm? After all, love always catches people off guard. Blind date has now become a common way of life for young men and women in cities. The reason why it didn't work is mostly because people think blind date is too crooked. You dislike those rules and regulations and question that the copper smell of blind date is too strong. Actually, it's not necessary Ordinary love will also need these as the guarantee of love.
Compared with other forms of love, blind date is actually more reliable, more cost-effective and faster. Blind date is not that you can't meet true love, but blind date doesn't exist simply to meet true love, so please get rid of those prejudices and show yourself well, and you won't be a lover and many friends will not suffer.