First of all, the role of bridesmaids
The bride will find her best friend as a bridesmaid. Therefore, as a bridesmaid, we must first clarify our position and role.
1, accompanying the bride can be called a competent bridesmaid. Don't let the bride never find you.
The bridesmaid should be very careful and considerate, and everything should be considered from the perspective of the newcomer.
Second, bridesmaid clothes.
Rose pink dress is the first choice, so that newcomers can see you at a glance in the crowd and also set off the festive atmosphere.
Secondly, you can choose a light pink dress to set off the feminine atmosphere of the wedding.
Avoid wearing pure black and white clothes to attend.
It is not recommended to choose beige, which will make bridesmaids and newcomers look depressed.
Shoes and bags should be in harmony with the color of clothes.
Third, the preparation of bridesmaids
Content prepared for yourself:
1, prepare appropriate clothes
2. Prepare comfortable shoes, because you have to stand for a long time.
3. Prepare fashionable and appropriate-sized bags and help the bride wrap red envelopes.
4. Prepare a slightly larger bag for the bridesmaid's clothes and other sundries.
5. Prepare suitable accessories. If you can't wear a wedding ring, you'd better have small earrings and bracelets.
6. Practice at least one sweet hairstyle.
7. Prepare a black clip and a hairband, because the makeup artist may not have time to comb the bridesmaid's hair, so it's up to you to solve it yourself.
Gifts for the bride:
1, straw: The bride drinks water on the wedding day to avoid damaging her makeup.
2, chocolate: the wedding day will be busy, the couple may not have time to eat, so bring chocolate and help them replenish sugar at any time.
3. Paper towels: If the bride cries at the wedding, hand in the paper towels in time.
4, small mirror, comb, hand cream, lip gloss, perfume, pin: pay attention to prevention.
Four, bridesmaid workflow (the most important link)
1, one week before the wedding, make an agreement with the bride on the meeting time, place and accommodation.
2. Rehearse with the bride the day before the wedding, communicate with the groom, the best man and the host, and pay attention to the route of the wedding.
3, the wedding day (key) work content:
(1) Admission: The bridesmaid stands behind the bride, side by side with the best man. The best man and bridesmaid keep a distance of two meters from the couple. There will be petal sprinklers and photographers on the way into the auditorium. Be careful not to bump into them. If the bride's dress is trailing, the bridesmaid should be careful not to step on the bride's dress and fall.
(2) Holding diamond rings: bridesmaids and groomsmen hold ring holders (usually two bears). When the host said that the bride and groom exchanged wedding tokens, the best man and the bridesmaid came forward to hand over the ring holder, and the bridesmaid also took the flowers from the bride's hand. After the bride and groom took off the ring from the ring holder, the groomsman and bridesmaid returned to the backcourt with the ring holder. If the ring bearer is a bear, it will be held by the bridesmaid to the middle and rear of the couple.
(3) Toast: Generally, before the newcomers enter the venue, a wedding company will prepare a toast in advance, depending on which side the best man/bridesmaid is. If it is on the best man's side, it will be handed over by the best man, and if it is on the bridesmaid's side, it will be handed over by the bridesmaid.
(4) Marriage Certificate: When the witness gets married, the bridesmaid needs to hand in the marriage certificate of the new couple.
(5) In-laws tea: Newcomers need to offer tea to their parents and change their names to "parents". The maid of honor is responsible for serving tea and water at the back. In order to prevent the newlyweds from taking over the tea they have drunk, the bridesmaids must whisper and take over the red envelopes in the hands of the newlyweds (given by both parents when changing their mouths). After receiving the red envelope, she will put it under the tray in her right hand and take it out together.
The diamond ring, toast, marriage certificate and in-laws tea will be handed over to the bridesmaid by the wedding company, so the bridesmaid should always pay attention to this special person.
5. Other work contents of bridesmaids:
(1) Door blocking: When the groom comes to pick up the bride, there will be sisters at the bride's house to block the door, and bridesmaids can also attend. Make it difficult for the groom to say some sweet words that are usually ugly. At that time, the bride was very happy, and it was probably only at this time that the groom would spare no effort to say many sweet words. The following tips are some questions when the groom blocks the door for your reference.
Tip:
Do you love the bride? How much love?
B Sing a love song (loudly), such as the moon represents my heart.
C says you love the bride ten times (call out the bride's name)
Who will do housework in the future? Who cooks? Who cares about money?
Name five advantages of the bride.
Say five sweet words that intoxicate the bride.
(2) Hide shoes: This job is generally done by bridesmaids.
Sometimes only one shoe is hidden, and sometimes two shoes need to be hidden, depending on whether the wedding company has this requirement.
The shoes were hidden before the door was blocked, and the groom came in and began to look for shoes. If you can't find shoes, the bridesmaid can ask for a red envelope and give a hint. It's best to give an appropriate hint, don't tell all the answers, but let the groom find them quickly.
Trick: hiding place
A it's in the bridesmaid's bag (the groom usually doesn't think of it)
On the table, the shoes are covered with decorations.
A hidden place near the windowsill
(3) Lift the bride's dress skirt
When the bride needs to go downstairs or go to the toilet, the bridesmaid should ensure that the bride will not fall, try to hold the bride and help her lift the skirt and skirt.
(4) Dress and change clothes
Brides always get their nails done before the wedding. Many brides can't adapt to the length of their nails, which makes it inconvenient to dress, eat and take things. Bridesmaids should try their best to help.
(5) sugar coating
The bride wants to wrap candy for the women's field guests, but because her nails are inconvenient, she may not be able to tear the candy paper open. The bridesmaid had better tear a small hole in each candy paper before the new couple comes out, so that the bride can wrap candy.
(6) Finish the bride's makeup
After the couple get off the float, the guests will spray ribbons and colored paper. In the dressing room, bridesmaids and groomsmen should clean up the couple in time and tidy up their makeup.
(7) Tidy up the bride's clothes
A Before going to bed the day before the wedding, help the bride tidy up skirts, gifts, underwear, jewelry, veils, gloves, etc. She needs it the next day.
B. On the morning of the wedding, help the bride pack a set of casual clothes and give them to the bride's family to take to the hotel (where the ceremony is held).
C On the wedding day, after the bride changes her makeup and presents, she helps the bride to tidy up the bag of the dress, put it with her own bag and take it to the hotel together.
D On the wedding day, after the bride changes her wedding dress, help her tidy it up and put it in the bag.
E After the wedding, help the bride tidy up all the clothes, including the marriage certificate and diamond ring box that appeared in the ceremony, and help the couple tidy up.
(8) transmitting information
It is inconvenient for the bride to go out too early. At this time, all the news was delivered by the bridesmaids. If the bride needs anything, the bridesmaid must deliver it in time.
(9) Tobacco sugar tray
When the newlyweds propose a toast to cigarettes, the bridesmaids follow behind with candy trays, so don't fall behind. Help the bride sort out which ones are candy paper and crossed matches, and which ones are candy and unmarked matches. Brides turn around in a hurry and don't care about these details. Therefore, the bridesmaid must help clean up, so that the bride can get what she needs as soon as she turns around.
It is the duty of the best man to stop drinking and ensure that the groom is not drunk.
(10) Receive red envelopes from guests.
When toasting cigarettes and alcohol, the guests will give the newlyweds red envelopes, and the bridesmaids will help the newlyweds put them away and put them in small bags prepared in advance.
(1 1) Give a red envelope
Some newcomers will prepare red envelopes for relatives' children and give them to bridesmaids for safekeeping. When the bridesmaid sees a child on the table while the couple is toasting, she should remind the bride to give a red envelope to her.
(12) Remind me to eat something.
Before the wedding and during the dressing-up, don't forget to remind yourself and the couple to add some calories and water to avoid being hungry. .
Five, bridesmaid tips
(1) On the morning of the wedding, be sure to eat enough, because this is the food of the day.
(2) Help the bride get everything ready, but don't forget to bring your coat, or it will be very cold.
(3) When couples propose a toast, arrange acquaintances to feed you something, and don't be hungry.
(4) The bridesmaid is responsible for collecting red envelopes for the newlyweds. At that time, it was best to let the best man testify, not all red envelopes were put in the bag. Afterwards, it is best to give the bag directly to the couple and let them sort out the red envelopes. Even if they can't arrange the red envelopes for other reasons, you should arrange all the red envelopes and put them in the couple's home, and show them your bags before leaving the new home. Newcomers trust you very much, but in order to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding, the more special the situation, the more bridesmaids should clean themselves up first, so as to avoid money affecting sisterhood.
(5) Newcomers usually give red envelopes to the best man and bridesmaid. Bridesmaids and groomsmen will also prepare red envelopes for the couple. When the amount of money is difficult to grasp, it is suggested that the gift money prepared by the best man and bridesmaid should not be too thin and should be given before the couple.
In another case, the bride and groom buy dresses for the best man and bridesmaid, and the best man and bridesmaid don't have to worry about the number of gifts. Xi John Lone is willing to witness the moment of happiness transmission with you!