Three months ago, Judge Kuang Guo Jun of Sanfeng Court in Pengxi County, Suining, came to a "special" consultant.
Fang Fang, a girl who is less than 150cm tall and only 12 years old, stood before the judge and asked how to handle the divorce.
Judge Kuang's surprise is beyond words. After careful inquiry, he learned that Fangfang's mother wanted a divorce, and the latter was still hesitating in the court hall at the moment.
"Mom, come here!"
Hearing her daughter's crying, Fangfang's mother looked up and walked slowly into the judge's office.
I have handled many divorce cases. Soon, Judge Kuang discovered the difference in this divorce case.
Mother prevaricated and dodged her eyes, but her daughter was generous and answered questions.
Upon inquiry, I learned that at 9 o'clock in the evening of June 365438+1October 3 1 this year, Fangfang's father went home drunk and made a scene. As soon as his mother responded, his father began to hit people, and Fangfang's mother couldn't bear it anymore. She shouted, If you do this again, I will go to court to sue for divorce!
Fangfang, who had fallen asleep, was awakened by the noise. Looking at her mother who was being beaten by her father, she remembered that she had seen the same situation many times, and immediately said to her mother, Mom, go, don't be such a father, go to court for divorce. Then I dragged my mother away from home.
That night, Fangfang's mother packed up her ID card and household registration book. I left home with my daughter and stayed at a relative's house that night.
The next morning, Fangfang took her mother to catch a bus and went to Sanfeng Court to ask for a divorce.
On the morning of May 2, Fangfang told reporters that for many years, as long as his father was drunk, he would argue with his mother and beat her. She always felt sorry for her mother and was angry with her father's behavior. "But my mother has been hesitant to go to court to see the judge. I'll go to the judge first. "
Looking at Fangfang's scared mother, the judge began to ask questions.
"Is divorce what you mean?"
"I mean, he's always losing his temper and hitting people, and I'm scared."
"Dad is very fierce when he drinks. He threw things and hit his mother. I will tell my mother about the divorce. " Fangfang listened to her mother's words and added.
After confirmation, the complaint was filled out, but Fangfang, a mother with low education level, could only write her own name. Fangfang, 12, volunteered to fill in the complaint for her mother.
Scribbled and changed, and for the third time, Fangfang finally wrote her mother's divorce complaint.
Fang Fang wrote in the complaint: "The defendant should be drunk and commit domestic violence, and his personality is violent. After drinking, he often beats and scolds the plaintiff for no reason, likes to be lazy, throw things around, do whatever he wants, do whatever he wants, fail to fulfill his responsibilities as a husband and father, and the three children don't like his father either. The relationship between husband and wife has completely broken down. We hereby request the court to terminate it.
Looking at the complaint written by the little girl full of typos, Judge Kuang asked, "Are you afraid that your father will hit you when you divorce with your mother?"
"Don't be afraid, dad can't hit me, and we can't go back. My mother and I are going to Chengdu to find my sister. "
After that, he left the court with his mother.
Judge Kuang lamented that in the past, parents were reluctant to involve their children in divorce, and it was the first time that they saw their children pull their mothers to court to write divorce petitions on their behalf. How can such a sensible little girl not have a complete home?
Fortunately, the outcome of the incident is still relatively good.
With the efforts and persuasion of all parties, Fangfang's mother finally chose to withdraw the lawsuit.
Just past the May Day holiday, Fangfang's father just bought a mobile phone for Fangfang's mother and gave Fangfang 200 yuan as living expenses at school.
Moreover, in the past three months, Fangfang's father has never lost his temper and hit someone once. He goes home after work every day. Occasionally, friends will ask for leave in advance to report to Fangfang's mother for dinner. He seldom gets drunk. Even though he was drunk, he went home and fell asleep. He will discuss with his mother to go shopping and show more concern for her.
In the face of dad's change, Fangfang smiled in her mouth and was sweet in her heart.
Fangfang said, I hope to have a complete family. But if my father beats my mother for a long time, and they have bad feelings, I would rather not have such a family, and I don't want my mother to be hurt more. I want a harmonious family more.
Now my father's temper has changed a lot, and I have forgiven him for a long time. I will study hard, find a good job and be filial to my parents in the future.
I will continue to be on mom's side. Mom is timid. I think she is still young. She should fight for it. If there is anything, she should say it out loud. Don't put it in her heart.
I am glad that this 12-year-old girl, with her courage and hard work, is getting closer and closer to her warm home.
We have heard too many parents say:
The child is still young. I can't divorce for the sake of the children!
Wait until the child is older!
I can't do anything. How can I live if I get divorced?
I have also heard other people's persuasion to unmarried people:
You're divorced. What about the children?
Bear with it, the child is still young, how can you live without quarreling!
Fighting at the end of the bed and making peace at the end of the bed, your divorce is to let others see the joke!
However, this 12-year-old girl taught everyone a lesson. Compared with having a wronged family, she is more willing to use her tender shoulders to support a world for her favorite mother and tell her not to be afraid to go away, she is still there.
At any time, what children need is a complete, warm and loving home, not a "home" far away.
Putting up with it is not a real family life.
The child's heart is bright and sensitive, even if the parents hide it no matter how well, everything that happens every day, awkward and rigid atmosphere, floats in the air, let the child understand what happened. The secrecy of parents makes it harder for children to say it. After a long time, a little trouble will make the child's heart hang on the wire, and it will be fragmented if you are not careful.
You know, whether your's married life is good or not, the children really know it clearly!
Remember the 10-year-old boy who jumped off the building some time ago because of his parents' quarrel, which attracted countless people to sigh.
However, the same thing still happens from time to time in a corner of every city.
Thanks to the little girl Fangfang's bravery, she saved a home with her own weak strength.
Marriage is like shoes. Only you know whether it's good or not.
I also want to tell your parents not to talk about children. Your marriage doesn't exist for children. If you really can't continue, please be together, break up, and seriously tell your children that the divorce is not because you are not good, but because mom and dad are no longer suitable for being together, but their love for you will never change whether mom and dad are together or not!
Children will really understand!
I hope all parents can understand each other, love each other, reduce unnecessary quarrels, and nourish a caring family with heart!