"When you pick up relatives, you must grasp a degree." Fan Luo, a senior wedding planner and lecturer on marriage and family of Tian Huan Wedding Company, said that everyone should know well when picking up the bride and giving the groom tasks, all for the sake of lively atmosphere, and never have the psychology of playing tricks on the groom.

Fan Luo said that the most important way to prevent deadlock is for the bride to act as a link and do a good job of communication. The first is communication beforehand. If the groom is introverted, the bride must discuss with her relatives at home and stop when she takes over. At the same time, the bride also needs to guard against the groom. Secondly, if relatives can't finish it on the spot when picking up relatives, the groom can apologize sincerely first and make up afterwards. He can't lose his temper on the spot and freeze the atmosphere.

Fan Luo also reminded that the harmony of husband and wife's feelings is the first step of family harmony, and all relatives and friends must help them deal with every detail of the wedding with a blessing attitude.