This has two advantages. First, it can put some pressure on the bride's family. Even if you don't get married later, you can at least recover some of your money losses. Especially this kind of bride price of 200,000 to 300,000.
Second, contact the woman's relatives to discuss. Whether it's a wedding or a gift, it's definitely not the bride who has the final say, but the combination of two families. Therefore, if the woman escapes from marriage, she can find her family again, and the two sides can discuss it, find the village Committee and the local police station to find a solution and then deal with it.
Don't directly gang up and direct your own past theories, which will easily lead to contradictions and group fights. It is definitely impossible to avoid marriage with money, and the purpose is too obvious, so don't have the idea of "if she comes back to get married, we can still discuss it", so don't be afraid of losing face. Stop loss in time is king. This kind of dispute is the same for both men and women. -tens of thousands of dollars is better than a lifetime!
Third, recover through legal means. Making trouble is the most unwise. On the contrary, you will get off the train. Although it is Japanese, it hurts the enemy 100 and loses 1000. It's already a war, so we don't need to consider the habit of not entering the yamen. Just take legal measures to recover it.
Really can't. 280,000 is already a fraud, and you can sue directly. How to return or defend, as long as the money taken by the bride is not borrowed by the groom, and the other party has evidence such as IOUs and transfer records, the money is supported to be recovered.
If it is true that the groom asked the bride to borrow it, and the bride got married to get her money back, then the bride should prove it.