If it is a different place, the bride and her family may come from other places just before the wedding, so it is necessary to meet the groom. If you want to follow the custom of not seeing each other the day before the wedding, it is best to come from other places 2-3 days in advance. After handling the wedding affairs together, the bride and her family can rest for the night at the hotel where the wedding is held the day before the wedding.
If the wedding company arranges the rehearsal, it can end 2-3 days in advance, or it can follow the custom that the couple don't meet the day before marriage.
If a western-style wedding is held, it is not said that the bride and groom can't meet the day before the wedding. Therefore, the specific wedding leave customs and matters can be decided according to the habits of newcomers and families.
Pay attention to the day before marriage.
1, avoid it
The day before the wedding, the groom can't see the bride. This is a habit left over from our traditional marriage customs. Among many ethnic minorities, premarital customs are more particular. For example, girls of the Tu nationality can't meet guests and do housework from one month before marriage. Besides preparing your own dowry, you should also learn to sing the "crying wedding song".
2. A woman's secret
Due to female physiological reasons, in Xiangtan, Hunan, in order to avoid the visit of female good friends on the wedding day as much as possible. According to the previous cycle, if the wedding day happens to be menstrual cramps, the bride will be jealous and scrambled eggs before the wedding day. Because in many places, it is taboo for the bride to menstruate on the wedding day.
3. The test of men
Some ethnic minorities, such as She nationality, especially Xiapu, Fujian, have the custom of "being in-laws". The in-laws were actually selected by the groom to perform a series of etiquette procedures on behalf of the man's family. Before getting married, the in-laws will choose gifts to the bride's house, and the bride's house will warmly welcome them. There is a lot of etiquette in the whole process. If the in-laws don't show satisfaction with their parents' family, they will be laughed at, and they may even change people and get married on another day.
Step 4 worship
In most places, especially in rural areas, ancestor worship is needed on the eve of marriage. There are also many local customs of "worshipping heaven and earth". I probably want to thank God for giving new people such a fate of meeting and knowing each other, and we will experience more tests of life together in the future.