Either make a living by yourself or marry a wife with your parents' money.
Perhaps most brides and grooms use their parents' savings, so they will recall their parents' difficulties when they get married.
And the bride may be another kind of psychology. Nowadays, people attach importance to girls. When they get married, they can often go back to their parents' homes. The new wife and mother-in-law will spoil them, and the groom will spoil them, so it may be because the bride is happy.
The aria of Minqin ditty consists of three parts: tune, cavity and minor. There are sweet and bitter notes in the tune and soft and hard notes in the cavity. The