Since ancient times, people have always attached great importance to marriage, so they have always been very particular about the wedding process, and some wedding customs can not be ignored. So, what is the process of the man picking up the bride? Let's have a look.
The process of the man picking up the bride 1 the process of the man picking up the bride on the wedding day 1: Let's go.
Upon arrival, the groom began to pick up the bride from the new house. Before leaving, he will give a wedding gift package to the driver of each wedding car. There are red envelopes and cigarettes in the wedding bag. Someone in the camera car must know the bride's house.
On the wedding day, the man's wedding process 2: blocking the door
At the wedding, blocking the door is a test for the groom. I summed up two experiences:
1, coax
The most important thing is to coax the bridesmaid and all the relatives and friends of the bride. The most direct way is to prepare a lot of red envelopes.
Step 2 be patient
No matter how hard the bridesmaid makes things difficult for the groom, the groom can't back down. The bridesmaids will prepare some games to make things difficult for the groom, which are lively and atmospheric, but enough is enough, not too much, just have fun.
On the wedding day, the man takes over the process 3: proposing marriage.
The groom successfully passed the bridesmaid test and can meet the bride when he enters the door. The first thing to do when you meet the bride is to get down on one knee and give the bouquet to the bride.
On the wedding day, the man took over the wedding process 4: serving tea.
After the bride receives the bouquet, she will toast the bride's elders and parents and change her name to parents. The order of the groom's toast is: to the bride's parents first, and then to the bride's elders.
On the wedding day, the man's wedding process 5: looking for shoes
After some ceremonies, the bride can go out. The bridesmaids will hide the bride's shoes and let the groom find the shoes ordered by the bride. Otherwise, they will not be allowed to go out. You can "buy off" bridesmaids with red envelopes. This is also a link to increase the atmosphere, and the meaning of red envelopes is enough.
On the wedding day, the man's wedding process 6: Go out.
After the bride's shoes are found, she can go out. The groom carried the bride into the car. When going out, the bride should look forward, not back.
On the wedding day, the man's wedding process 7: get on the bus
The bride should take an apple in her hand before going out and get on the bus and go straight to the groom's house. Never look back on the road. When she arrives at the groom's house, the whole process of picking up the bride will be over.
What are the details of picking up the bride?
1, knocking at the top door, in the traditional wedding custom in China, means "the nature of the groom."
Don't rush to see the bride when you enter your family. Say hello to mom and dad first.
Knock on the door and enter the bride's boudoir (there will be a "lock the door game" in the club at this time).
Give the bride a bunch of flowers and put a corsage on her.
5. Organize new people to offer tea to the woman's parents.
6. The groom puts on new shoes for the bride and carries her on the bus.
7. Instruct someone to organize relatives and friends to get on the bus.
Second, the process of a married man picking up the bride.
The process of getting married and picking up the bride is pleasant.
After meeting the bride's family, the groom will hold a bouquet in the room for the bride to get married. At this time, the bridesmaid of the bride should deliberately stop the groom, but the conditions require the groom to agree, usually with a red envelope gift.
The process of getting married and picking up the bride II. say goodbye to
Before getting on the wedding car, the bride should say goodbye to her parents, and the groom can just bow and salute.
Getting married and picking up the bride process three. associate
When leaving the bride's house, the bride should be escorted to the limousine by a well-blessed female elder with a bamboo plaque or a red umbrella, because the bride can't see the sunshine overhead, and the other party hopes to live a happy life like this female elder, which represents the opening of branches and leaves. Sprinkle red beans, mung beans and rice on the top of the umbrella to ward off evil spirits.
Process 4 of getting married and picking up the bride. Gift cart
Prepare a bamboo plaque and paste the word "Xi" on it. Bamboo cards can be placed on the back cover of luxury cars.
The process of getting married and picking up the bride V. Respect the model
Before the bride got on the wedding car, a little boy gave the bride a fan and put it on the tea tray without authorization. The bride returned a red envelope as a token of her gratitude.
The process of getting married and picking up the bride VI. Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna
When the bride gets on the wedding car and everyone leaves her home, don't say goodbye to her family.
The process of getting married and picking up the bride VII. Burning a gun
When the wedding car starts and leaves the woman's house, the woman's house will set off firecrackers.
Who can't pick up the bride?
1, an empty-handed man
People who pick up the bride can't be empty-handed, so when they go, everyone is responsible for helping the groom get presents, which also reflects the sincerity of the man's family.
2. Divorcees
Divorced people can't take the bride, because most people think such people are unlucky, and everything should be perfect for such a happy event as marriage. And the marriage life of the person who picks up the bride should be perfect, which is a beautiful moral.
3. People who have nothing to do.
If people involved in white affairs recently are not suitable for this occasion, because marriage is a happy event, it is best not to collide with red and white affairs, otherwise it will bring bad luck to the couple.
The man picks up the bride process 3 wedding process
First, school preparation
1. Before the wedding, the bride and groom will give their belongings to a special person for safekeeping.
If you carry mobile phones and other items with you, it will not only cause distraction but also affect your appearance.
In the first three minutes of the ceremony, a special person (wedding supervisor or groomsman bridesmaid) will be responsible for guarding the door of the banquet hall.
The groom is entering the venue. If there are late guests, please ask them to wait a moment. Because opening the door will affect the concentration atmosphere of admission.
Secondly, the bride enters the venue.
1. Don't enter the venue at the beginning of the music. Wait 15 to 30 seconds.
Give the guests some time to prepare, and when the guests' eyes are fixed on you, they can enter.
2. The bride holds her father's (elder's) left arm with her right hand, and they keep a distance of about 15cm.
Newcomers walk slowly, and the bride follows the groom, about half a step slower than the groom.
Look forward, behave naturally, and don't look around.
The bride should not always look at the skirt, and the groom should not look around, but must show the confidence and elegance that the newcomer should have.
4. The bridesmaid arranges the skirt for the bride at the right time.
It is inconvenient for the bride to walk alone in her wedding dress, especially when she has a long tail. The bridesmaid should help the bride to tidy her skirt in time.
In order to prevent stepping on the wedding dress, kick forward with your toes when walking.
Walking posture must look good, even if you accidentally step on the wedding dress, you should make adjustments as if nothing had happened. After all, the focus of the audience today is on you.
6. When using a portable wedding dress, it is not advisable to hold it too high. Don't show your toes.
When the bride drags her skirt, the most elegant action is to gently lift the front and middle of the veil or the sides of the wedding dress with both hands, but not too high, so as not to affect her walking and not to show her toes.
Third, the handover ceremony
1. The groom walks in front of the bride and her father, with a distance of 30 cm. Father gave the bride's hand to the groom and father.
I will say a blessing or entrust, or I don't have to say it, and then my father will leave. The groom knelt down to offer flowers, but the bride had to wait for three seconds instead of picking them up right away. The bride walks slowly with the bride on the runway, reminding the groom to help lift your wedding dress by holding your hand when walking. (It is not recommended that the little flower child lead the way and sprinkle petals in front of the couple, because there are too many uncontrollable factors for the child. )
2. The groom should hold the bride's hand after the couple stands on the stage.
On the wedding day, you can be said to be the strongest IP in the universe. Besides holding hands and sticking together, is there a better way to love?
When the couple stands, the groom should be on the bride's right.
This is probably a tradition from ancient Europe. It is said that the bride stands on the groom's left, so that the groom can draw his sword with his right hand when necessary, which can better protect the bride.
4. When two people stand together, they both stand slightly inward in a figure of eight.
The advantage of standing like this is that it is not too greasy or sweet.
5. Never forget: hold your head up, straighten your back, tuck in your abdomen and hold out your chest.
Let the head, hips and heels be in a straight line, so that standing will be particularly energetic and perfectly show the outline of the dress. In a word, you can't give people the feeling of laziness and listlessness.
6. Turn slowly and move neatly.
The bride should show noble temperament in the wedding and avoid any big moves. When you need to turn around, your body should turn with your footsteps at the same time, with a gentle amplitude and neat movements. If the skirt of a wedding dress or gown is large, you can gently grasp the skirt and skirt with your hand opposite to the rotation direction and lift it slightly when you turn around.
Fourth, exchange rings
1, bridesmaids should avoid appearing in the camera when the couple exchange rings.
When the groom takes the ring off the ring pillow, the bridesmaid will take the bride's bouquet and quickly put it aside. After the groom put it on the bride, the bridesmaid came over and asked the bride to take the ring off the ring pillow. When the bridesmaid comes on stage to give the ring, she should go around the back of the couple and give it to the audience.
The wedding ring should be worn on the ring finger of the left hand.
Wear the ring slowly, with the back of your hand facing the audience at 45 degrees. First, let the guests present have the opportunity to appreciate and witness the whole process. Second, it is also convenient for photography and video shooting. This will look very elegant.
If the bride wears gloves, she should try on the wedding ring at the rehearsal first.
The purpose is to see if the wedding ring can be worn. If not, you should take off your gloves before the ceremony.
After putting on the ring, the groom unveiled the bride's veil.
The veil on the ceremony is suitable for long, noble and mysterious, and it is usually kissed after being lifted. Presumably, many girls have not recovered from Chen Xiao's veil.
Five, couples kiss
1, kiss, lovers should be generous, don't be coy.
The kiss of the couple was carried out after the official announcement of the couple at the ceremony. When kissing, you can naturally and generously express your happy feelings, but you should avoid being too forgetful. If not, you can learn from Nicky Wu. It can also be an exaggerated and bold kiss.
Sixth, the connection of marriage.
1, wedding speeches and other speeches can be rolled up in advance and tied with red ribbons.
The advantage of this Yi Labao is that it is beautiful and festive, and it also adds a full sense of ceremony. Is it particularly solemn for witnesses and parents to speak slowly?
The couple should listen carefully when the witness speaks.
Don't get bored with each other and whisper to each other. Witnesses are generally more prestigious elders, and his speech is also a great affirmation of your marriage.
Seven, grateful parents
1, parents enter grandly.
Thank you, mom and dad, for raising us through hard work. They are really superstars at the wedding! The wedding is not only our ceremony, but also their highlight moment. Design a grand entrance for parents, invite them to take the stage, and give them a big hug after taking the stage. Isn't this a rite of passage for the whole family?
VIII. Toast Session
1. When the couple stands on the stage to make a toast, they should walk to the middle of the stage (parents of both parties can stand on the stage to make a toast to the guests together, and after the wedding supervisor serves the glass, the couple and their parents will toast from left to right, if the couple needs a toast only under special circumstances). First, you are the protagonist on the wedding day, and the protagonist must of course stand in the center of the stage; Secondly, it is convenient to take care of the feelings of all guests.
When the couple drank a toast, they held the glass in their right hand.
If one hand holds a glass in his left hand and the other hand holds a glass in his right hand, it is impossible to carry out such a cup handing ceremony. When holding the glass, it should be uniform, and everyone should hold the glass with his right hand. Of course, you can use your left hand.
3. For a wedding banquet with more than 40 tables, it is best to control the time for toasting and changing clothes within 10 minutes.
This time is really a race against time! I'm afraid the guests will leave after dinner.