The marriage customs in Hani culture are completely different from what we usually see, and they are complex and diverse. Among them, the most special one is the "Weeping Wedding Song", which is a peculiar wedding custom and a unique national custom. Crying is not only the regret of relatives and friends, but also a blessing. On the wedding day, you need a matchmaker to go to the woman's house and try to find out the bride in order to successfully complete the wedding.

Hani people have a folk song: "Xiaomi Huang, Hani crazy." Young Hani unmarried men and women will find a partner when they are 16 or 17 years old, and it is a good time to fall in love and find a partner after the autumn harvest.

There are three criteria for Hani youth to find objects: first, they are beautiful; Second, whether the work is good or not; The third is whether you can do housework. The third is the most important. Miss Hani should wear leggings. The first thing that young people pay attention to when they meet girls is how leggings are made and whether they can spin. Therefore, Hani women must learn skills such as drawing lines, embroidery and sewing clothes from an early age to avoid getting married.

Hani people generally choose to get married after harvesting winter wheat and before offering sacrifices to the village entrance the following year. During the buffer period after the engagement, if the girl doesn't go back on her word, the man will find a bosom friend to sneak into the village at night to "grab" the girl back and put some money before leaving. When the girl's parents saw the rest of the money the next morning, they knew that their daughter had been robbed by that man and would not look for it. Even if the woman's parents object, the son-in-law will not know her daughter's whereabouts until seven days after she comes back to recognize her relatives, so she has to acquiesce.

When holding a wedding, the wedding procession must break through the defense line of the woman's wedding procession to "snatch" the girl, while the wedding procession throws glutinous rice balls, mud balls, earth ashes and so on. In the wedding procession, the bride apologized.

Hani people live in Mojiang area, and the groom, accompanied by cousins and colleagues, goes to meet the bride. When you arrive at the bride's house, you must see your in-laws and get their consent before you can marry the bride. The bride cried when she left home, which is the custom of crying for marriage. The bride will cry three days before her wedding. The sadder she cries, the more praised she is, which shows that she has deeper feelings for her parents and family.