As soon as I heard that whose son in the village married a daughter-in-law, young men and women flocked to Xi's house in twos and threes. The men and women in this family are grinning and rushing forward to have sex. Some people are not familiar with each other at ordinary times, so they welcome them into the house with a smile. They are busy delivering wedding candy, handing out cigarettes and adding tea. Some people forgot to wipe their faces and reached for the cigarettes handed over by Master Xi. Someone deliberately teased, "If you want to eat the wedding candy given by the bride and smoke the cigarette ordered by the bride, you will be happy and have a taste!" He said, and got into the bridal chamber.
At that time, people were more conservative, and there would be no excessive behavior. That is to say, talking and laughing, fighting and making noise, want to be happy. Many people want to make trouble in the bridal chamber. Most of them are joking, asking for candy. Sometimes there are so many people in one room that they all shout to the bride in unison: "Take sugar! Take sugar! " The bride was overwhelmed by so many people that she didn't know who to give the candy to. She shouted, "Eat sugar!" "I caught a handful of wedding candy and threw it into the crowd. At this time, the crowd was in chaos. They all bent down to grab the candy. When people are crowded, they can't even bend down. Some people can't grab the candy and shout, "More sugar! More sugar! "The bride or bridesmaid should grab a handful of candy and throw it into the crowd, setting off the climax of grabbing candy again and again." Get candy! Get the sugar! The shouts of "Happy Candy" and Xi Xi's laughter are intertwined, which is very lively.
I often follow adults or children to ask for candy, open a corner of the red curtain, squeeze into adults' legs and shout, "Aunt, give me a candy!" " "When the bride hears the shouts and sees me from the clearing, she will hand over a few pieces of wedding candy. At this time, adults will dodge a crack and will not grab the children's wedding candy. If I want a candy, I will jump three highs and run home. My grandmother and mother will ask me, "Do you like candy? "I replied happily," I'm going to catch it! " "A few pieces? "I'll count the pieces and then answer how much I want. I feel that the wedding candy I personally want is different in taste, especially sweet.
When I was a teenager, I heard rumors in the village, and all kinds of stories went too far. Some people say that there are two old bachelors in the village, and they will definitely go to the bridal chamber when they hear that someone wants to marry a daughter-in-law. When they entered the bridal chamber, they got together and sat on the kang next to the bride. I asked the bride and groom to perform excessive programs. If you can't meet the requirements, twist the bride's thigh and do some excessive actions to the bride. The groom can't stop it, and it's not easy to get angry on a big day. Some people can't stand it anymore, so they call the bride's in-laws to form a circle: "If you make trouble, you will make trouble." This just stopped.
Many years ago, I heard my uncle tell a story about a bridal chamber. On the day he married his cousin, there were three new couples married in the village. It is not surprising that the village has grown up. The strange thing is what happened later. In order to join in the fun, they packed up each other's new houses and several brides had a rest. At this time, I don't know which groom had a bad idea: "let's make a bet and now make sure that someone's new wife has fallen asleep." If you don't believe me, let's lift the bed from door to door. If she doesn't sleep, I lose. If she does, you three will lose. " The boys said in unison, "Good!" The young people are very angry, and they all think that the daughter-in-law will definitely not fall asleep before she goes home. So, they went around the village to the newly married family to lift the bed for the bride and went to three houses in succession. Some brides don't sleep, some sleep, and they don't take off their clothes when they lift the bed. At this time, the person who made the bet was a little worried, and the other three felt that the victory was in the bag. But anyway, I'm going to the last one. When I got there, I saw the bride sleeping, but I didn't know what was going on, so someone lifted the bed. The groom of this family was dumbfounded, and the other three people were shocked. The bride gave a scream and blushed a lot. Because she had no hair on her head, several people ran home in confusion.
In the mid-1980s, when I was a soldier in the army, my new wife, a comrade-in-arms, came to the team and treated me to a banquet. Just like attending a wedding reception, several comrades pushed a cup for a change and drank a lot. After three rounds of drinking, a comrade-in-arms impulsively proposed to make up for the "noisy bridal chamber". Everyone responded with hip-hop and stopped drinking. The bride was pushed to sit on the newly assembled mixed bed. The comrades quickly picked up the bride and asked me and several other comrades to hold her hand and hold her feet down so that the bride could not move. I have never attended this kind of wedding, and I was influenced by orthodox military education in the army for several years. I blushed before the bride blushed, but the comrades who suggested the wedding didn't jump. I look a little out of line.
Now the bridal chamber is more popular, which can be described as varied and varied, and there has been a "crazy" phenomenon. Some insulted the bride's personality, even the bridesmaid's personality, and some hurt the body and even life of the parties. The major media often report that they lost their lives because of the "bridal chamber", which is absolutely wrong.
"Noisy bridal chamber" is a lively wedding form passed down from history. "The bridal chamber" should be lively and interesting, without losing the effect, and enough is enough. The excessive phenomenon of "disturbing the bridal chamber" should stop!