Falling in love may also be just to grow up. Some time ago, in the hit drama Picture Book of Beijing Women, Chen Ke, a female college student from a small place, wanted to go to the big city of Beijing to develop and take root.
In the play, her personal love life is very rich.
Only the first six episodes have changed three boyfriends. Daxun Wei's first love only lasted a few minutes. Later, she met Juck Zhang again, but they fell in love for a while and then parted ways, and later met the rich second generation. After meeting Yang Yu, a rich second generation, she has been trying to be a lover who can compete with her and is eager to go to the palace of marriage. From the beginning, she regarded Yang as someone who would accompany her for life, but in the end she received a wedding invitation from the other side and another rich second generation girl. ? Chen Ke thinks that falling in love means marrying the other person, but the other person thinks that falling in love and getting married are not the same thing. ?
Like Chen Ke, many netizens feel that they are over 30 years old. Love is marriage. If you don't fall in love with me for the purpose of getting married, you will delay my time or be a hooligan.
I didn't expect so many girls to look down on themselves. When you are in love, you have to compromise and let the other person marry you. If you have sex several times, you have to be responsible for yourself for life.
You are an adult, and falling in love is what you want. Whether it can go to the end is still unknown. When you are in love, you can be a selfless living Lei Feng, but marriage is actually more inclined to a business cooperation. Since we talk about cooperation, we have to mention our respective strengths. Only when the strength of both sides is equal, the possibility of long-term cooperation will be greater. ?
As wuyue said, everyone wants to be more comfortable, get more, and then work less. We are all such people. Please allow him to do the same. Don't blame the other party for abandoning you to choose the one with better conditions. If you abandon the one with better conditions and choose a poor boy who is far away from you to help the poor, you will find that you may not be able to do everything for love. ?
If I happen to want to get married and the other party is willing to give me this promise, then everyone will be happy. If the other person doesn't want to marry me, then I shouldn't ask the other person to marry me, just enjoy the love process. ? Must falling in love be for marriage? I don't think so! Most love is to make us grow up, not to get married.
2. falling in love can also be just for your own comfort. In fact, as the book says, "Marriage has nothing to do with falling in love. People always think that when love is mature, they will get married naturally, but they don't know that marriage is just a way of life. Everyone can get married. Very simple. " Xu, a talented woman, claimed that there was no shortage of men in love since she was 19 years old. But she didn't marry anyone in the end. And what she often talks about is that it is good to be happy. If you get married and have children at 20, you can be happy. But that's not the life she wants. She has her own way of being happy. ? As a matter of fact, it is well known that Lao Xu is unmarried. ? At the age of 44, she has been with her lover Huang Lixing for eight years and has maintained a stable relationship, but she has never cared about the marriage certificate. ? When Dong Qing asked her, "Is it your choice to just fall in love and not get married?" ? Her answer was, "I think everything is fine now. It can be said that it is 100, and it will not become 120 because of marriage. That's it." ? Lao Xu is a clean stream in the entertainment circle, and even one of her predecessors, Wang Shuo, has been very kind to her. Although it is rumored that Xu once bought a suite for Wang Shuo, he is not willing to lag behind. He claimed that all his property belonged to Lao Xu after his death. ? Perhaps it is because Xu is maverick and insists on living his own personality that he will win the favor of so many opposite sex.
She fell in love for her own comfort, not for marriage. We respect each other's decisions, and we all have what we want most. I can fall in love for not getting married, or I can fall in love for getting married. My classmate Xiao Xia talked with her boyfriend for seven years before getting married. ? Xiao Xia's parents are at odds. They have been quarrelling since she was a child. Their unhappy marriage has planted the seeds of fear marriage for Xiao Xia. ? Not to mention getting married or falling in love, she still got up a lot of courage to decide. ? Her boyfriend has been chasing her since freshman year. He buys her breakfast every day, rain or shine, and runs seven kilometers from school to buy her freshly ground hot soybean milk. Every breakfast egg will be peeled for her. ...
To sum up, there are only unexpected demands on Xiao Xia, and there is nothing that a boyfriend can't do. In this way, after pursuing her sophomore year, she accepted each other carefully with the encouragement of her roommates. ? Boyfriend's family conditions are good. I found them a good work unit as soon as I graduated. And both of them live up to expectations, work hard and know how to be frugal in life. The next year, they bought a house with the help of the man's parents. ? So the man's parents felt that their relationship was stable, and the girl Xiao Xia was more reliable, so they also bought a house, hoping that they would get married and have children as soon as possible. However, her boyfriend knew that she was deeply influenced by her family background, so he ignored her parents' urging and respected Xiao Xia's personal wishes. It is up to Xiao Xia to decide whether and when to tie the knot. ? At this time, Xiao Xia was very determined, and she was determined not to get married. ? It wasn't until the fourth year of graduation that Xiao Xia saw his girlfriends, friends and classmates get married and have children. ? Originally, my boyfriend planned not to get married for life, but the change in Xiao Xia made the whole family overjoyed. ? It was not until a few days ago that they finally got married. At the wedding scene, many people think that all shall be well, jack shall have Jill, and envy Xiao Xia. What a blessing!
Yes, a few people can be as headstrong as Xiao Xia, have a marathon love, but always take the initiative. I can fall in love not for marriage, but also for marriage. 4. What is love for? This is my most recognized answer. Love and marriage are actually two different things. ? Some people come into your world just to teach you a lesson, but they can't accompany you to the end. Only when people who really love you come into your world will they not quit so easily, spend the rest of their lives with you, and respect and cherish any decisions you make from beginning to end. ? It doesn't matter whether you fall in love for marriage like Chen Ke or for comfort like Lao Xu. It is important that you find someone who loves you enough, just like my classmate Xiao Xia, who will satisfy you and give you everything you want. ?
Must falling in love be for marriage? Not necessarily.
But falling in love, even if it's just for me to be myself at any time, must be right!