Accept talent, that is, the man asks the matchmaker to propose marriage to the woman's house. If the woman agrees to propose, and the man formally proposes to her, he must bring the live goose as a gift to make people accept his choice. In the book "In the Soul of Li Yi's Poems", it is said: "When you are unconscious, the geese pick it."
Asking the name is that the man asked the matchmaker to ask the woman's name and eight characters in order to prepare for marriage. "In the Soul of Li Yi's Poetry" records: "What's your name, Bin Zhi Yan?" Most of the names asked are: "If someone orders them, they will be added to divination. Who dares to ask the woman's name? " If the woman agrees, send a gift; Men decide their luck by divination. If the eight characters of men and women match, proceed to the next step.
Najib, that is, telling the woman the good news of divination marriage, also took geese as gifts-later generations mostly took gold and silver jewelry as gifts. Equivalent to the current engagement, commonly known as delivery, over-commitment, engagement.
Sign, that is, the man sends the bride price to the woman's home, also known as paying money, hiring a big one, giving a big gift, etc. In ancient times, birds and animals were used as gifts. In ancient times, the whole deer was used as a bride price, and later generations simply used deerskin. Cui Jian's "Wedding Text" records: "Tell the bird to drink the goose with deerskin." The Book of Songs, Zhao Nan, said: "There are dead elk in the wild, and white grass covers them. There is a woman who loves spring, and Ji's family lures her. " It's about proposing to a girl with wild deer. Because in ancient times, hiring more geese was a betrothal gift, so the betrothal gift was also called "supporting birds". Of course, not all birds and animals were used as gifts in ancient conscription, as in "Self-protection Feng Wei", "Self-protection flies, silks wear clothes." When bandits come to trade silk, they come to me, which is an example of using cloth as a dowry Later, the collection of gifts became more and more complicated and became one of the most complicated processes in the Six Gifts.
Invitation day, that is, after the man chooses the wedding date, he goes to the woman's house to prepare gifts and ask for marriage permission. Now people commonly call it "raising the sun" and "sending the sun".
Kiss is to marry the bride. Their manners and manners are different, but most men go to the woman's house to greet their relatives. After returning to the man's house, the bride and groom eat in a tripod, and then cut a gourd in half. Husband and wife hold each other's drinks, which is called "marriage"-this is the origin of the toast of later generations. This process is one of the most colorful events in marriage custom culture.
In ancient times, the marriage of rich children generally strictly followed the steps of six rites, while the marriage of ordinary families was mostly simple. Qilu is an ancient civilization and a state of etiquette, but it is not limited to the Six Rites. Shandong Linqu is still like this, and it has long been ridiculed by wind poems. "The Book of Songs Qi Feng Zhu" cloud:
As soon as I am attached to it, I turn a deaf ear to it, and I will still be attached to it.
As soon as I went to court, I turned a deaf ear to green, so I showed it to Joan Ying.
As long as I am in the hall, I will turn my ears yellow, and I will still be with Joan Ying.
The so-called "writing" in the poem refers to the open space between the gate and the screen; Court refers to the place inside the door and in front of the hall; The lobby is the lobby in front of the room. When getting married, men only wait in these three places, which just shows the marriage custom of not welcoming each other.
The wedding of later generations generally followed the flow of the ancient six rites, but it was different. However, no matter how different customs are, there is generally a unified step: first, betrothal, third, wedding ceremony, and 40% marriage-there will be a fifth step in individual marriages, that is betrothal.
Generally speaking, this is better to be colloquial.
You can say "I'm Xiao Ming, xx (place name)" or "Xiao Ming" and then introduce activities and so on.
Because there was no host in ancient times, they were all spoken. Sentences like "I am the host xxx" are all imported from the west. The real host in ancient China was the master of ceremonies, which was generally used as written language. For example, wedding invitations may say "MC: xxx", which is the ancient usage of the host.
According to the plots in Ming and Qing novels, we can see that the words used in people's daily conversations are very daily and colloquial. After dinner and the play, I don't need to play with you, do I?
I hope I can help you ~
3. The classical Chinese "Zi Mozi" was translated from Lu, that is, ① Qi. After an old friend, Zi Mozi said, "Today's ink is righteous, and the son suffers alone, but the son is unjust." Zi Mozi said, "Since there are people here, there are ten children, a plow and nine people working in ③, the tiller can't help worrying about it. Why? Then more people eat and fewer people grow. If you don't do the right thing today, then you will advise me. Why didn't you stop me? "
Mozi visited an old friend on his way from Lu to Qi. A friend said to Mozi, "No one in the world upholds justice now. You are the only one who is trying to uphold justice. You still stop! " Mozi said, "There is a man here now. He has ten sons. Only one son farmed, and the other nine were idle. Therefore, cultivators should be more anxious. Why? It is because there are more people eating and fewer people farming! Now no one in the world upholds justice. You should encourage me. Why do you stop me instead? "
Note: ① Leave immediately. ② Mo: No one. 3 places: living and leisure living. 4 such as: appropriate, appropriate. 5 persuasion: encouragement.
4. Translation of Classical Chinese: There is no car in Yue, but a tourist (from Yue) got a car in the suburbs of Jin and Chu, and the spokes of the car were rotten and the wheels were broken.
When the pin at the joint between the axle and the truck scale is broken, the axle is useless. However, because there was never a car in his hometown, he loaded it with a boat.
Go home and boast in front of everyone. The spectators listened to his boasting and thought that the car was like this, and people followed suit. One day, a man from Chu Jin met him.
When they got on the bus, they laughed at their clumsiness. The Vietnamese thought (the people of Jin Chu) were deceiving themselves and ignoring them. Wait until the enemy invades their territory, the more
People are fighting the enemy in broken cars. The car broke down and suffered a great defeat. I still don't understand the reason for the car.
5. Funny China Classical Butcher can damage the chief father's hill without starting a business halfway. Today, we have a huge soup. Fiona Fang is seven miles away. This sincerity can be a tree with an inch diameter, a piece of jade, a beautiful island and a rock. However, the guards' ministers were filthy, loyal ministers were frozen thousands of miles away, and snow drifted in Wan Li. The cover chased the butchers all day to see the beautiful scenery of the field, and the more they looked, the more they entered. Sincerely, it is advisable to cut bamboo and take the road and go to the countryside to feel homesick. Don't hold a holy meeting and stab me in the face to block the way of loyalty.
The palace is full of smelly oil and rotten sauce, and there are rows of fines. If you are a traitor and loyal, you should show your tail and bare your chest to show your majesty's unkindness.
Assistant ministers Yu Shinan, Zhang Suiyang, Zhang, etc. Are they all animals? Do they jump big? , is a butcher like a tourist, Jane. Fools think that if they learn to read, they can "click" and read the drums all around and scatter tirelessly.
Donkeys and generals in Guizhou love to make noises during sex. He tried in the past. The butcher called it "two wars, and he wanted to go first" because he regarded Zhong Yong as a satrap. Fools think that if they learn from disputes, they can make their flags weak, and if they are chaotic, they can be in an invincible position.
Feet confused, eyes blurred. This is why the Han Dynasty was so prosperous; I was confused by my own eyes, I was confused by my own feet. Since then, the Han Dynasty has been so depressed. When the butcher is around, every time I look at his minister with a knife, I sigh that I am not a good marksman. Taihang, the palace, the son of the neighbor, the snake god, I know that I am a minister who died of chastity. I hope your majesty believes that then the Han Dynasty will be overthrown and nothing can be done.
I don't know who Chun Han is, but he is as tall as two millet. He devoted his whole life to the hidden place in the north, risking his life for the people of Wen Da in Chu. The butcher does not regard his ministers as fierce and chivalrous, but cares about him from left to right. Thanks to the three ministers in the Broken Mountain Temple, the butcher was allowed to live a quiet life with his territory and could not stay long. When the latter value is overturned, when it is appointed at the end of the road, it ranks between two stocks, and it is useless for you to come.
The butcher knew that my minister had thrown my food bar and cup aside, and I couldn't eat or drink, so he knocked my minister to the ground. Since he was appointed, he has always supported yellow on the left and blue on the right. He only knew how to shoot an eagle with a bow, and he was afraid that the entrustment would not work, so he hurt the young madman of the first emperor. So he brushed Zhang Suiyang with his sleeve and didn't dare to play. Today, the South China Sea has decided that the military revolution is not unyielding, and there is not much rice and millet. When the three armed forces were awarded prizes, they ordered the barbecue for 800 miles, but they were mixed with the former dynasty. Therefore, the minister reported that the butcher's duty was to go home by the wind. As for the losers who sing on the road and the walkers who rest in the trees, Yu Shinan, Suiyang and Fang Ping will be appointed.
May your majesty languish for Iraq. If not, shoot it and sue the butcher knife. If there are no novelists, blame the south, which has no good opinion of Yang and is slow to respond. Your majesty will also entertain guests and cut his throat. I appreciate it.
Now it's time to stay away, courageously come out, fight two wars, and want to go first.