Some scholars believe that there is still a legacy of robbing relatives in China's old marriage customs. For example, when a man marries a woman, she should wear a red veil. It is said that the original intention was to prevent women from waiting for an opportunity to escape halfway, or to prevent them from writing down their way home. This skill is the same as tying people up with bandits and covering their eyes with black cloth. Scholars speculate that many activities in the wedding ceremony are like robbing the bride. For example, in the wedding ceremony in rural areas, there is a spear in front of the road, a dozen little boys holding colorful flags behind them, and many young and middle-aged guards such as brothers and nephews behind the groom. At first glance, it feels like a robbery. And the bracelet that a woman wears on her arm, we might as well think of it as handcuffs. As for the custom of crying marriage in some mountainous areas, it is even more doubtful that the bride was taken away. Later, robbing relatives became a ritual. When the Yi people in Yunnan, Guangxi got married, the two sides agreed on a good place and robbed them. The man is accompanied by a knife, the woman pretends to call for help, the relatives of the woman pretend to save people, the man throws money, and the relatives of the woman collect money. This is probably the red envelope thrown by Silla at the rural wedding now.