Two people who are getting married are close to each other's hometown and belong to the same place. If the husband's family doesn't respect the woman, it will make her hair explode, let alone a girl who is married far away. Marrying a distant woman is not only a matter of courage, but also a matter of love. The most important thing is whether she is respected. Especially the kind of woman who wants to live with or be close to her husband's family after a long marriage, we should pay more attention to whether her husband respects you. If your husband's family doesn't respect you or even bully you, you don't have any friends in other places, and your mother's family can't put out the fire nearby, it's sad to think about it. Not that you shouldn't marry far away. The key is to look at people, not only to see if a man is good, but also to see if his family is good to you.

There was once a girl who was going to get married, and she chose not to get married when talking about marriage. In her own words, the reason is this: "Although my ex and I talked about marriage after falling in love, his family has never accepted me, disliked me, looked down on me, and thought that I was born in the countryside. Marrying their family is a comparison branch, and let me deduct the bride price and bargain. I just wanted to get married for free and treat me as a free nanny. I can bear it if I just haggle over the bride price and other issues. But he used irony and contempt to bargain, which seriously hurt my self-esteem. Otherwise, there will be no good fruit after marriage.

In fact, this girl is not too miserable. At least when talking about marriage, she recognized her husband's family and avoided a marriage tragedy. The girls below are different. It was not until the wedding that she recognized her husband's family. Although she chose not to get married in the end, that experience made her feel good all the time until now. Let's have a look. On the wedding day, the bride in the distance heard her mother-in-law call her parents "hillbillies" and decided not to get married on the spot. Seeing that you mentioned two "wedding farce" this morning, I also want to talk about my wedding farce. This kind of thing, people can't say how happy it is. Although I stopped loss in time and didn't marry myself to a bad mother-in-law's house, I still can't forget this bad memory, and I tremble with anger at the thought.

I was born in the countryside, but I have never felt inferior because of it. People can't choose their origins. What kind of family they are born in means what kind of family they want to have, which depends on their efforts and management the day after tomorrow. I have always been confident that my efforts are getting better and better, and I have been recognized by many people, but I finally capsized on this issue. After graduation, I went to work in S city. My ex-husband is a local. After we fell in love, we talked about our future marriage and decided to settle in S city. It doesn't matter to him, because his home is there. But for me, this is a distant marriage. At that time, he said he wouldn't treat me badly, so I believed him. But the problem is that he won't treat me badly, which doesn't mean his family will look up to me.

My ex-husband is fine. It is precisely because he has been standing between me and my mother-in-law, so my mother-in-law has never had a chance to say that she doesn't like me, and I haven't thought about it. I feel that there should be no such thing as love. From talking about marriage to getting married, everything went smoothly. Of course, all this is related to the ex-husband, who has never let her mother-in-law be a demon. However, on our wedding day, he didn't have much time to stop his mother-in-law, and her true colors were exposed. At that time, my mother's family arrived a day early, settled in the hotel and picked up relatives from the hotel. There is no problem in the process from reception to wedding. However, after my parents met his parents, the problem appeared.

My mother-in-law got together to talk to her relatives, probably because she was afraid of what I heard and deliberately said it in her hometown. But I have been in S city for so many years, and I can understand some local dialects. So what my mother-in-law said to those relatives has reached my ears. My son is blind, so it is guilty to marry a farmer. There are many girls in the city, all of whom are better than that woman. I really don't understand what kind of ecstasy my son is filled with. Look at her family. They are all hillbillies like her. Tell me how I will get involved with this hillbilly in the future. It makes me sick to think about it.

After listening to these words, I can hardly figure out whether my ex-husband is good or not. I just want to get divorced and not get married, because my family and I are looked down upon and humiliated. The more I thought about it, the angrier I became, and I decided not to get married on the spot. My mother-in-law accused me of being ignorant and said that I had humiliated their family. She said it again by the way. I turned to my ex-husband and asked, "Did you hear that? This is what your mother thinks of me and my family. I can't marry you. I can't stand this humiliation! " I turned against my enemies. The two families broke up and could not get married. I divorced my ex-husband on the wedding day, just like the woman your teacher told me this morning.

When a woman marries far away, she will lose many things. If she can't get the kindness of her husband's family, she really doesn't need to get married. Being single or having parents is better than being bullied by a bad husband's family.