I think marriage is a lifelong event, and I will think it over carefully before getting married. Generally speaking, the decision to marry a person means that their feelings are already deep, and they will form a new family with each other after marriage, and the family often represents new responsibilities and new pursuits.
After marriage, you need to maintain this family with your other half. What you do is no longer simply representing yourself, but also representing your family. So after marriage, you will take on new responsibilities and need to pay more for this family.
My idea of the wedding is this:
1. Wedding is a sense of ceremony: love needs an anniversary, life needs a sense of ceremony, and everything needs a sense of ceremony, not to mention a big event like marriage. It is a special ritual to make a lifelong commitment in the presence of relatives and friends, so it is essential to get married and hold a wedding.
2. Wedding is the witness of two people's love: wedding is a religious ceremony, and its significance lies in gaining social recognition and blessing. Under the witness of relatives, friends and colleagues, you got married together and started a happy life journey.
3. Wedding is a mutual commitment: wedding is a commitment and a responsibility, which means forming a family from two independent individuals. Whether you are poor or rich, whether you are healthy or sick, you will never give up. This is a promise.