Do you have a comprehensive understanding of wedding etiquette?

This is an invitation used by both men and women to invite relatives and friends to the wedding banquet. Generally, the bride and groom can be named together, separately or by their parents.

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Exodus 2: The invitation letter signed by parents is hereby made on ×××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××

First, what should I pay attention to when writing an invitation letter?

(1) The name of the invitee should be written in full, not in nicknames or aliases.

② Write "cum" or "and" between two names, without pause or comma.

③ The specific date (month, day) of the wedding should be stated.

(4) indicate the wedding place.

II. General congratulations

Three stars are at home/talented people and beautiful women/a perfect match made in heaven/a coincidence/a godsend marriage/fifth century Qi Chang/Feng Huang Yu Fei/soul mate/Long Teng Feng Xiang/Yushu Qiongzhi/Yuefu singing/eternal harmony/century-old marriage/affection and affection/unity and friendship/marching side by side/like a drum like a harp/flowers and a full moon/like-minded/. Drum music/tying the knot/perfect marriage/singing and dancing/always bathing in love/love birds/Haiyan's amphibious/Gan Kun's fixed play/Sheng Qing's homophonic/deep/sincere love of the ocean/harmonious/happy marriage of husband and wife/Yaner's wedding.

Find out who was at the wedding reception.

Sending wedding invitations is a combination of four lists. The bride and groom each have a list of friends, as well as a list of the bride's family and the groom's family.

The person who holds the wedding decides the number of affordable guests and distributes the list equally. Traditionally, if the bride's parents pay for the wedding, if possible, the bride's mother and the groom's mother discuss how to allocate the number of people. If the two families are old friends and live in the same community, the invitations should be divided equally or equally. At least half of the names on the two lists are duplicate, so both families can add some new guests to replace the duplicate positions. However, if the two families are not familiar with each other and their friends are not familiar with each other, then the number of people on each list can only be limited to half of their own.

On the other hand, if a family lives far away and only a few guests are present, another family can invite more guests as long as the total number allows. No matter which one, you can't take risks, even if it's a little too free, because in fact there will always be some guests who can't attend. When the guest refuses the invitation, the bride's mother can send out other invitations instead of the guests who can't come. The latest time should be two weeks to one and a half weeks before the wedding.

For the groom who lives in other places, the most important thing is to realistically estimate the number of guests who can come to the wedding from other places to maintain harmony in the future. If the bride's mother tells him the number of guests he can invite, he must try not to exceed it. In this matter, the party who lives away from home must respect the requirements of the bride and mother, because they may not realize that space and cost are the factors limiting the number of invitations.

Generally speaking, when planning a wedding, this is the first question that couples will consider. Wedding hotels, wedding photography and so on are all hardware, but the choice of male and female guests and friends is out-and-out "software" and very interesting. Usually, the best friends or close colleagues of the bride and groom are listed first on the list. If you want to use your fingers to calculate the conditions, they are similar in age, warm-hearted, willing to do anything for their friends, and can stand the test of "alcohol" and the hard and soft of the guests. In real life, choosing a friend or relative is not as easy as choosing the best man and maid of honor. If you are worried about this, the following suggestions will help you make a decision.

[wedding scale]

At present, there is no rule that only one groomsman and maid of honor can be invited to a wedding. If you are large-scale, you can invite them all to your side. In addition, don't "force" your best man and bridesmaid to dress low-key. In fact, their brilliance will add luster to your face!

[Your purpose]

Best man, what do bridesmaids do for you?

Do you just give you moral support, or do you expect them to be your right-hand man? Did he or she eat well in the scene? Is it exquisite? Are there any interesting talents that can stir up the atmosphere of the wedding? In case of emergency on site, can you solve it calmly? You should carefully consider whether he (she) is the most suitable candidate, and don't push a friend who may not like the excitement to this position just because of personal relationship.

[difficult commitment]

When the invitation was printed, did you suddenly think, "Oh, how could you forget him (her)?" Last time I promised to ask him (her) to be the best man (maid of honor)! Or, did your partner make a similar promise on a whim? Don't be too afraid of this situation, but don't avoid the question. Explain it to your friend and he (she) will forgive you.

[Special quota]

Do you have any close brothers and sisters? Maybe this wedding is a good internship opportunity for him (her). If you still have die-hards in the dance academy who regard marriage as dirt, entrusting him or her with the task of best man or maid of honor may change their minds.

[Internal blind date]

Marriage is of course your wedding day, but there are still many articles to be done besides this fact. Do you or your lover have any friends who are worried about love? This wedding is a great opportunity. Ask this friend and his (her) lover to be your bridesmaids and groomsmen. At this time, it is difficult to open your heart without love. Coupled with the jubilant wedding banquet, I believe that the effect of this blind date is incomparable to that of ordinary cafes!

[openness]

When the final list is determined, you should have a good communication with the selected people. Do you need a dress? What series of colors are today? Does he (she) have a ready-made one or do you want to buy it specially? All the guests and witnesses, the master of ceremonies list, the whole wedding process and the solution of unexpected things must be given to him or her first. Remember, you can invite several bridesmaids and groomsmen because of excitement or human relations, but you must know who is the closest, and you must let him (her) know this first, because only he (she) can really play a role in your wedding.

Hotel salute-is the most common way at present, where the witness and the host make auspicious wishes and then entertain the guests; Convenient, efficient and lively. Generally speaking, the ceremony at a wedding reception is as follows:

1. The bride and groom greet the guests at the gate of the banquet hall;

2. Witnesses, referees, guests, hosts and relatives are seated;

3. At the beginning of the wedding, play "Wedding March";

3. Male and female guests attract the groom and groom to the dining table;

4. Master of ceremonies officiates at the wedding;

5. The witness spoke and read the marriage certificate;

6. The guest representative made a speech to congratulate;

7. The bride and groom exchange tokens;

8. Open champagne, cut wedding cakes and drink toast;

9. Parents of both sides came to power, and parents' representatives spoke to congratulate them;

10. The bride and groom bow to their parents three times, to their guests three times and to each other three times;

1 1. Take a group photo;