The wedding scenery is really useless.
When I got married, I took thousands of wedding photos and finally stuffed them under the bed. No one looked at them and took up space.
No matter how much the wedding costs, the most you can get is a compliment of "Oh, it's really rich". As a result, it won't be long before people forget that it doesn't matter how much it costs. Almost, as long as the hotel is reasonable There is no need for extravagance and waste.
The key is whether they are happy after marriage.
If you really feel unsafe, put away all your bankbooks and cards. Open an account in your name and deposit the money. There is a saying that women always have to leave a way out for themselves.
Question 2: Is the wedding bride price really that important and necessary? It depends. Usually, if the parents of the woman's family are educated and basically in the city, they won't want it.
If not, it will be more likely, but 3w is not too much. I once had a friend who asked for 10w when she got married, and finally broke up.
Question 3: Is it necessary to give a bride price when getting married? You basically don't have to give this money. Everything is yours, but every place is different from place to place.
Proper giving is also for the etiquette of marriage. Isn't marriage a bride price now?
If you really love and pay so much, there is nothing wrong with giving a little bride price.
But if you are in a hurry, you won't talk.
Question 4: Do you want to get married or not? Marriage means that two families become a family, and the bride price is only given to the woman in order to have face in front of the villagers' neighbors. Don't care about these details if the economy permits. If a woman is worthy of love, it is a small matter.
Question 5: Should we ask the man for a bride price when we get married? Son, the wedding is for others to see, and the days after marriage are for yourself. If you think about it, you will know what to do. If you want a glorious wedding, there are cracks between husband and wife, and outsiders will not help you in the future.
Question 6: Should a married woman get a bride price? It is also a custom to ask for an appropriate bride price, which means more or less the same thing. Less is stingy, more is blasphemy.
Question 7: Should we register first or give the bride price first? According to the traditional custom, the bride price should be given first, and then the marriage registration formalities should be handled at the Civil Affairs Bureau. This has basically become an unwritten agreement. If you get the certificate, the man will not give the bride price, and then the woman will be very passive. It's not that money is more important, mainly that traditional rules can't be lost, and more importantly, etiquette can't be lost.
Question 8: What dowry do you need to get married? I don't know where you are from. This is our marriage custom in Fuzhou. Man: The man's parents and matchmaker take the groom to the woman's house for engagement. The man wants to send: a gift (the gift is based on 3. For example, 33,533,65438+100,000. 3. The mantissa of dowry must be "3", which is homophonic with "sheng" in Fuzhou dialect. Symbolizing the birth of children after marriage), festive and colorful (5 kg 2 packs of candy, 2 big pig legs, 2 big fish, 2 dried fish, 5 kg 2 packs of noodles (noodles should be wrapped in red paper), some red eggs, some apples or oranges, 2 bottles of red wine, 65,438+00 healthy feet, 2 chubby ones that turn red after cooking (meaning perfect), and one. You don't have to send a gold bracelet when you are engaged. When to send gold can be negotiated. ) These things should be wrapped in red paper, or put square red paper on the gift. Woman: You can prepare a hen, so you can exchange it with the hen that the man gave you when he got engaged, and let the man bring back a pair of chickens (including the cock that the other party originally gave you). Some women don't prepare hens in advance at home, but leave the hens given by the man and let the man take them back to the rooster. Must be prepared: a pair of trousers and a gold jewelry in the pocket. According to Fuzhou, pants with gold are a treasury, and I hope the man has money. As for how much gift the woman wants to send to the man, she can return it on the spot at the engagement ceremony or give it to the bride as a dowry when she gets married. Remarks: As mentioned above, the woman can return half of the "ten colors" given by the man at the time of engagement. But this "ten-color celebration" is also negotiable. Now many people don't give ten colors, just give them casually. Weddings in wedding hotels can be arranged by wedding companies. According to Fuzhou custom, when getting married, the first day is the man's house to handle wine. The next day, wine was served at the woman's house, also called Huimen wine. On the first day of marriage, the man's family should prepare more than two decorated wedding cars to come to the woman's house to pick up the bride and dowry, which is also called picking up relatives. The groom will also bring the bride's flowers and fine cigarettes to the bride's house. When you see the bride, give her the bouquet. At the same time, cigarettes were generously distributed to the woman's family. When the couple are at the woman's house, after meeting their ancestors, they should eat Taiping (note: Taiping's soup must be chicken. And the bride should eat slowly, preferably not faster than the groom. The necessary dowry for the woman's family is: a doll (preferably given by a friend, but never bought by the bride herself), a baby bath basin, two suitcases, and a red bucket (meaning the bride's toilet, and red dates, peanuts, lotus seeds, longan and melon seeds should be put in the bucket, which means early birth). Wedding procedures: the groom's wedding car arrives at the woman's house, and the woman's house should set off firecrackers. After that, the groom can enter the woman's house. After eating too much, the newlyweds took their dowry to get married. Before the newlyweds go out, the bride's house will also set off firecrackers. After that, the newlyweds can walk out of the bride's house. When the bride walks out of the woman's house, never look back. She should move forward happily. Even if she forgets something, she can't turn back. She should let someone else get it. The bride must hold a red umbrella from the moment the bride leaves the house until she gets on the bus. The red umbrella must be held by the bride's aunt (when notifying the groom's family, the groom's family must set off firecrackers first, and then the bride can get off the bus. The groom must take a red umbrella for the bride and walk her from the car to the door. The wedding car began to leave, and the woman's house had to set off firecrackers again. The day after marriage is the day to go home. The bride's family will send her brother-in-law to pick up the bride, and the groom will give her money. Then the groom prepares gifts, visits Yue's home with the bride, and returns the same day. As for other things to be used when getting married, whether they are prepared by the woman's family or the man's family, there is no special provision and they can be decided by both families through consultation.
Question 9: Do you need a gift for your engagement? Please observe local customs. When engaged in Qingdao, you should pay a lucky number to the woman's family, that is, 5 1800 (I want to send it), and the minimum is 3 1800 (I want to send it). However, some women's families will return part of the bride price money (commonly known as pressing it back), or provide part of the funds for the woman to buy a dowry (including household appliances after marriage). Of course, there are also some that are not returned. When getting married, at least the man should give the woman a diamond ring.