Precautions for going to a wedding We are attending a wedding in our life, but there are some exquisite things that need our attention. So what should I pay attention to when attending a wedding banquet? Below, I have compiled some relevant knowledge about matters needing attention in attending a wedding, and welcome everyone to learn from it.
Matters needing attention in wedding 1
Attention 1: Don't steal the bride's thunder.
At present, wedding brides wear both western-style wedding dresses and Chinese dresses. In order not to steal the bride's thunder, don't wear white or light beige series and big red. If the bride lets you wear it, that's another matter. In addition, don't show your breasts topless, which will attract too much attention. Women must pay attention, no matter how beautiful, don't dress better than the bride.
Precautions for attending the wedding: dress casually, don't dress too formally.
This is a major event in couples' lives, and dressing neatly is the basic respect for the host.
The clothes of male guests are very simple: suits, shirts and ties. Women's demands are more complicated: if you are only attending a party, a suit and tie will do. If you go to a formal wedding, you'd better take off the pearls and tie them with a black ribbon, or put on a small and chic suit. Formal weddings need respect, especially when held in traditional temples or cathedrals.
If there is a dance after the wedding banquet, or the host indicates it on the invitation, you should also wear a more grand dress. It is said that in Japan, all the ladies attending the wedding should wear kimonos, and they are specially prepared for the wedding, which shows how grand it is. No matter how gorgeous you dress, remember: never be too topless and attract too much attention. If the groom keeps winking, then you will be missed by the bride for life.
Note 3: Don't be late for the wedding.
This is not a horror movie at home on Friday night, this is a wedding. Being present on time is both respectful and necessary. There is no reason for being late. Besides, the couple spent a lot of money on you. Why don't you want to get the ticket back?
Precautions for going to a wedding II. First, attend the wedding with goodwill.
When we attend a wedding, we usually communicate well with each other and have a deep friendship before the other party invites us. Then we should attend this wedding in good faith. In the traditional etiquette of the Chinese nation, people usually send gifts to attend weddings to express their wishes of congratulations. However, the amount of this gift money should be within our ability. I don't advocate high gift money here. Because it will put a burden on people with poor relatives.
Second, the wedding participants obey the master's command.
In our China, in a wedding, the owner of the wedding will usually find some people with good relationships to attend the wedding. One is to join in the fun; The second is to show your good interpersonal relationship. This time, there were other wedding participants besides the best man and the bridesmaid. Like people who set off firecrackers. Because now the whole world advocates environmental protection, firecrackers are few or gone, but colored ribbons are used instead of firecrackers. It also adds to the festive atmosphere. There are also drinks for everyone; Snacks for everyone. . . Although most weddings now invite wedding companies to act as agents. However, in our traditional concept, there seems to be something wrong with the face of the wedding without some relatives and friends. So this kind of work still needs to be done by friends and relatives.
Third, not picky about the details of the wedding.
If you are not the one attending the wedding, then attend the wedding. You know, China is a vast country, and every region has different customs. Therefore, any wedding will not meet everyone's psychological standards; Moreover, the wedding scene is lively, and the people attending the wedding are different. It is inevitable that there will be such omissions; Or the process arranged by the wedding host does not meet your personal psychological standards. . . The wedding is very important to this couple. Although it is clear that any wedding will not be perfect, for the bride and groom, they still strive to be perfect. So, when you find some small flaws in the wedding, or some processes don't meet your psychological standards, please ignore them and don't tell them! Needless to say, in a sense, this is a kind of goodwill.
Fourth, keep your manners and don't make too many jokes.
In some areas, in order to pursue the lively effect of the wedding, there may be a custom of holding a wedding; Or make some jokes at the wedding. If you attend a wedding, please pay attention to: jokes should be moderate, and the bridal chamber should be moderate. Anything that goes too far will develop in some bad ways. Once the joke goes too far, not only the two sides are embarrassed, but they are likely to turn against each other and seriously violate the law. Especially at weddings-never mind, hold your breath; Caring, ruining the wedding atmosphere. There are many people who joke too much at the wedding, mostly relying on each other's psychology of not wanting to ruin the wedding atmosphere, and relying on this to make some jokes that are not on the table. Now everyone is a quality person, so we should pay attention to this.