Only when the man goes to the woman's house for the first time to meet his future in-laws, will he send tea gifts (that is, the man buys gifts for her parents). At this time, the woman's parents will send out (red envelopes), usually hundreds of thousands (basically equivalent to the gift money given by the man).
A woman goes to a man's house for the first time. Some women will buy some gifts, while others will not. It depends on natural love or someone's introduction, and also depends on the woman's mind. But whether the woman buys a gift or not, she will give her a red envelope the first time she enters the door.
Then before the two parties are ready to get married or engaged, the man will take the woman's relatives and friends to the man's house (in fact, it is the condition for the woman's relatives and friends to visit the man's house), and then if the woman's relatives and friends really agree, we will talk about the specific process of engagement or marriage and the bride price money (most people don't get engaged now, they get married directly; In addition, the bride price is not discussed by the woman's parents, but depends entirely on the man's mind)
Finally, accompanied by relatives, friends or parents, the man goes to the woman's house for dinner and gives a bride price on the appointed day, and then talks about the specific wedding date and what both parties need to do. Some women's family conditions are good, and parents will give bride price money to their daughters (filial daughters will generally refuse). Most parents will not return the bride price money to the man. It is unlucky to return the bride price directly or indirectly.
Then on the wedding day, a small number of women's parents will give money to their daughters and sons-in-law; The egg money collected by the woman (the money given by the guests to eat happy eggs and drink sugar water) was directly taken away by her daughter-in-law; In addition, the dowry of the woman and the money of relatives and friends are directly obtained by her daughter-in-law
The above is all the money directly related to the woman.
I hope it helps you.