Because talking about bride price is related to the interests of two families, we can also see the man's humanity and the woman's three views from the side.
No matter for the man or the woman, when talking about the bride price, they don't want the other person to feel the material truth.
But reality is reality, and bride price is an obvious thing to be solved.
At this time, the couple who are very loving on weekdays have now transformed into good business negotiators.
Once you feel that you have been taken advantage of by the other party, you will have a quarrel, which will affect your feelings and your wedding.
For many couples in real cases, it is all for the bride price, which can't stand the test. The talks have completely collapsed and love is gone.
In fact, "bride price" has always been a sensitive topic. After all, it is reasonable for the woman's family to raise her daughter like this. However, the amount of bride price should also consider the man's own family. If you have money at home, you don't care about this bride price. However, if the economic conditions of the man's family are not good, it is really inappropriate for the woman's family to talk big or give a bride price according to the actual situation of the family.
However, if the man's family conditions are better, the bride price demanded by the woman's family is reasonable, and the man's family wants Bai Piao, it is a bit excessive. In short, whether to give a bride price is the pattern of the woman, and whether to give a bride price is the decency of the man. If you play dumb in that room, it's not decent.
In fact, because the bride price talks collapsed, in the final analysis, it was because of family problems of both men and women. There must be a problem that the bride price talks about the collapse of one party is disgraceful. Either the man thinks there is too much bride price, or the woman's lion opens his mouth. Anyway, I still hope that a good relationship can have a good result, and I hope that both sides can make concessions and don't embarrass young people. Once lovers in love begin to discuss the bride price, they are essentially inclined from the spiritual world to the material world, from emotional connection to a transaction.
In the emotional love context, everything can be solved. But in a transaction with clear logic and clear figures, there is no room for compromise.
This kind of context change is very common in life.
For example, if a good friend has a meal, you must have AA, but AA doesn't count. When you have to make everything clear, you will wake up the other party's bookkeeping logic and let the friendship go offline temporarily.