When I met Qin Haoran, Nan Zhou had just been divorced for half a year.
The ex-husband is the object of university talk, and you can't see the problem in the ivory tower. I found out that he turned out to be a mother-in-law after I got married for love. On a good day, he made a chicken fly and a dog jump, and in less than three years, his previous feelings were exhausted. She just had a cross heart and escaped from the cage in time to return to her parents when she had no children.
Suddenly bid farewell to cigar smoke, Nan Zhou sighed that the city was refreshing. She is calm inside, but others think she is fighting back her sadness. It coincided with her birthday, so I had to call her out of bed to join in the fun, for fear that she would suffocate alone.
Played with each other's kindness, with a ball head, gently stroked his eyebrows, slightly pursed his lips, put on his sneakers and went out.
Before entering the box, an earth-shattering little song slipped out of the door. Nan Zhou couldn't help laughing, pushed the door and pushed in, sent gifts, greeted each other, found a quiet corner to sit down, and used his mobile phone to prepare the work report for the next day.
She was too busy to notice a group of eyes lingering on her. She was about to refuse until she was called to sing, when a gentle male voice said, I like this song very much. I wonder if I have the honor to sing with beautiful women?
At that time, boos were everywhere.
Nan Zhou this just seriously looked at the man talking, feel a little familiar, but really can't remember where I met. When I was young, I immediately whispered in her ear: Qin Haoran, our high school high flyers, his father is from the Education Bureau, and my brother's family came to the full moon wine, so you are separated by a table!
Nan Zhou fumbled in his mind, didn't dig out anything, but nodded and agreed to the man's invitation. Not to mention the internet in her mouth, to be fair, she has always had a good impression on men with high IQ. What's more, this man is quite handsome.
The two sang a popular love song, and with the hidden snigger around them, they gradually became really ambiguous.
That evening, Nan Zhou received a friend application. The two chatted freely, but the more they talked, the more speculative they became, and they could talk about any topic with relish. On weekends, Qin Haoran asked her out for dinner and movies on the pretext of work problems.
Nan Zhou was very happy, but thinking of his identity, he took the initiative to remind each other. As a result, Qin Haoran categorically said that he didn't care. In this way, the two talked about love.
Adults' feelings are natural. Nan Zhou has been married once before, so she is not so restrained. Together for more than half a year, Qin Haoran moved in directly with her because of her job change, and her work place was closer to Nan Zhou's residence.
After cohabitation, almost all the living expenses were borne by Nan Zhou. Qin Haoran didn't even buy a bar of soap except inviting her out for dinner on weekends. Nan Zhou's family is superior, his income is high, and he never cares.
In fact, Nan Zhou was moved by her boyfriend's acceptance of her divorce status. So she doesn't care about being patient with me in other ways.
The city is so big, and there are friends you know. Soon the communication between the two people spread to both parents.
On the background, although Fu Qin works in the Education Bureau, she has not been promoted for many years, and will soon retire. On the whole, he can't compare with the wealthy Zhou family. However, Qin Haoran graduated from a prestigious school and looks good. He is a local who knows the roots well. Considering that his daughter has experienced a failed marriage, Nan Zhou's parents are quite satisfied with him.
Talking about marriage, Nan Zhou remembered that she was divorced, so she didn't mention any conditions, as long as they could live a good life. Father Zhou said that he would marry a luxury car and two houses.
Qin Haoran's mother is very picky about Nan Zhou's marriage. Hearing his news, she laughed out of sight and was very affectionate. In a word, the wedding date is finally set in autumn.
At this time, it has been more than two years since the last marriage ended.
Nan Zhou seems to be living in a dream. I can't believe I'm going into my second marriage so soon.
She often thinks of those young lovers who are at odds with her ex-husband, the breeze and the bright moon, who put on the shell of marriage and spit out seven aunts and eight aunts, and gradually were worn beyond recognition. First lovers, then strangers, even enemies. What is the meaning of marriage?
However, when I think of those horrible pieces of chickens and dogs, look at the quiet years in front of me, and look at this decent and interesting elite fiance, I can't help but look forward to it.
She would never have thought that this expectation and sincerity would one day become a weight for others to calculate her.
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Not long after the engagement, Nan Zhou found herself pregnant.
She guessed that because the wedding date had been fixed, they lost their previous caution in bed and muddled through. Although there are some surprises, they are more surprises. She is thirty years old and most of her peers have become mothers.
Knowing this good news, Qin Haoran was also very excited and clamored to go home and inform his parents.
This trip is three days.
When I came back, there was something in my eyes that Nan Zhou could not understand.
She was too busy at work to take it to heart. After a while, I suddenly remembered that he was in charge of the engagement hotel and asked him what the result was. He nodded casually without looking at her.
A few days later, he faltered, saying that my parents felt that the last hotel was not high enough and asked me to change it. However, the cost of this hotel is too high. Can your family ... split it equally?
His wording was a request, but his eyes clearly said that he would win.
Nan Zhou felt a chill, and the tip of his tongue touched his teeth, which was painful. Are divorced ladies so cheap? She didn't ask for three cents. As long as the man was in charge of the wedding banquet, he pushed his nose and face like this.
Her whole body is cold, only the palm covering her lower abdomen is warm. There is a little life in it, which is her bone and blood, connected with her heart. This is to warm her.
She gritted her teeth and agreed to Qin Haoran's request, and then she was silent. If it weren't for this, she would have shown him the existence of "small soybeans" by taking out the inspection report she made this afternoon. She wants to discuss with him whether the little bean looks more like him or her when it comes out.
In the next few days, they didn't talk much. Qin Haoran sensed her emotions, made an excuse to go home and get something, and never appeared again.
Nan Zhou a person lying in bed, staring at the ceiling, didn't sleep a wink for a long time.
A week later, she sent a message asking Qin Haoran: Are you still married?
I received a reply soon: of course, but I have to say the details.
This time, Qin Haoran's family came.
The father and son carried the battlefield to two women. Mother Qin brushed Nan Zhou's stomach lightly, lukewarm way: Old woman, she gave birth to this baby, and I don't know if there will be one in the future. I guess you are very excited, my girl. Everything went downhill in the last marriage. You have no idea how much his father and I disapproved. With the conditions of our family, how many yellow flower girls line up!
Nan Zhou's eyes swept her fiance's face indifferently, smiled and motioned for her mother to continue talking.
Qin's mother is encouraged and she is sure to win. She doesn't even need a prelude. She came straight to the point: we mean that Haoran married you and wronged him to some extent, and your family has to make up for it. His name was written in the caravan that accompanied him, and two shops gave it to him. I heard that your father has several idle pavements in South Street. ......
Nan Zhou listened quietly, getting colder and colder. However, regardless of the stormy heart, after a short hesitation, Baba smiled and said, OK, I promise. Anyway, my dad only has one daughter, and it's not all me and Haoran in the end. To prepare for the wedding, book the best hotel, and our family will pay for it!
A family of three suddenly beamed, and Qin Haoran immediately said that he would stay and take care of her at night. Nan Zhou fought back her nausea and wanted to spend more time with her parents before she got married, so she went home overnight.
During this period, they tried on the wedding dress and saw the hotel. Everything is sweet. Although Zhou Nanda spent most of her time at her parents' house, she gave up her weekend date. Qin Haoran just felt that she needed to meditate and rest during pregnancy and didn't take it to heart.
In his view, everything has already become a foregone conclusion. She is the apple of his eye. Only she asks him to get married. Without his worry, she won't get married. Especially as her belly became more and more obvious, he became more and more unscrupulous, just waiting for Jinshan Yinshan to run to himself.
However, until half a month before the wedding, the Zhou family said nothing about the transfer and purchase of a new car. Qin Haoran couldn't wait, and went to the door to "collect debts", only to find that people went to the building. Call and ask, Nan Zhou's parents took her to other places to have a baby and let him get married.
The Qin family was so angry that they were at a loss. The invitation has been sent out, and the hotel has paid the deposit for the wedding. Everything is ready, but the bride is gone. How can they tell others?
They threatened Nan Zhou from embarrassment, and if they didn't come back, they wouldn't want to marry Qin Haoran again, and the child would be aborted by themselves. However, no matter how harsh the words are, they seem to sink into the sea and there is no answer.
As a last resort, Qin Haoran put pressure on her friends through * * *, saying affectionately that she didn't dislike Nan Zhou's divorce, but she lost her princess temper and said she would leave. As expected, divorced women are not easy to mess with.
He looks respectable, and his words are full of grievances and affection. At first, almost all his friends stood by him, until Nan Zhou posted a video and some photos of chat records in his circle of friends.
In the video, Qin's mother swears at Nan Zhou and brazenly asks her to give her son a car, a house and a shop on the grounds of pregnancy, but she is not so confident about robbing money. Qin Haoran, who has always been affectionate, hid behind with a shrewd face and watched helplessly as his mother helped him calculate the benefits from his fiancee.
The chat record is also their mother's and son's. When talking about marriage, they began to discuss how to make the woman's family "bleed". After learning that the other party is pregnant, they are even more fearless: agree if you don't agree anyway, or your face will be gone!
However, they did not expect that in the hearts of some parents, the happiness of their daughters far exceeded their faces.
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In fact, from the first time Qin Haoran went there, Nan Zhou began to realize that something was wrong.
Since her parents started their business, she has been used to calculation, and she knows this better than anyone else. The Qin family just wanted to raise their social status by snubbing her, so as to achieve the purpose of holding her. She felt cold, but she was willing to give the child another chance.
Of course, there is also her affection for Qin Haoran.
He offered to share the cost of the wedding reception, and she was as cold as ice. The local custom has always been that the man contracted the wedding expenses, not to mention that she didn't ask for three gold and dowry. For the sake of her children, she put up with it and only hoped for peace and prosperity in the future.
I don't know. Their appetites are getting bigger.
Nan Zhou then realized that people must stick to their own bottom line. Because once the bottom line is broken, the other side will attack the city and be fearless.
Seeing her mother's verbal humiliation to her fiancee, she was able to sit and watch the play indifferently, which made Nan Zhou give up completely. She even began to suspect that this relationship originated from calculation.
After the heartache, it is a lucidity that penetrates everything.
Out of revenge, instead of fighting with them directly, she made a false promise so that they could book a hotel with peace of mind. For this kind of family who loves to take advantage, I am afraid I will never forget losing a penny.
That night, she came home, showed her parents the surveillance video transferred from her mobile phone and the chat records taken before, and told them that she decided not to get married, but the child was born as usual, surnamed Zhou, and later called their grandparents as the heirs of the family.
As for this relationship, let's assume that she borrowed a seed outside. Moreover, the man is not ugly and has a high IQ, and this kind of loan is not a loss.
Nan Zhou's parents were furious at first, and vowed to find the Qin family theory. Seeing that their daughter is really smart and looks depressed, listening to her Kan Kan and talking about the outline of the future, they can't help nodding. Yes, it's better to have a bad life after marriage when you meet bad people. Anyway, they are not short of money and can cover for their daughter.
A family of three chatted about the prospect, and the more they talked, the more excited they became. Zhou Mu couldn't wait to express his position: After the baby is born, I will deal with this personally, so don't worry!
Afraid that the Qin family would affect Nan Zhou's fetus after learning the truth, Zhou Fu simply temporarily took his wife and daughter to live in a different place and happily waited for the birth of his grandson.
Because of Nan Zhou's exposure in the circle of friends, Qin Haoran's reputation was ruined, and he never dared the wicked to complain first, so he could only privately beg Nan Zhou to turn back. However, no matter how sweet he talked, she didn't respond.
What worries them even more is that Nan Zhou gave birth to a fat boy, and the family came back for a full moon wine with great fanfare, announcing that the child's surname is Zhou, which is the future heir of their family.
Qin's mother looked at the chubby boy in the photo, and she was a little regretful. She came to the door with a dowry to ask for peace, so that Nan Zhou could get back together with her son and give the child a complete home.
Nan Zhou directly ignored it.
Qin Haoran questioned her, did she watch the child lose his father's love?
She asked: How much love can a father who used him as a bargaining chip before he was born have for him?
As a result of this dispute, the Qin family left swearing.
Soon after, they regretted being heartbroken again.
Because of the full moon wine storm, everyone knows that Nan Zhou's children belong to Qin Haoran. Although Nan Zhou didn't admit it to him, it didn't change the fact that he had an illegitimate child. There was an illegitimate child before marriage, but girls with brains avoided him, and the road to blind date was endless.
After all, it's all asking for it.
Postscript: Nan Zhou's son is four years old now. He was born with lovely jade snow and was spoiled by a large family. He is cheerful, confident and natural. Qin Haoran is still dating. Anyway, he never saw Nan Zhou again. Life is always like this, seeking benevolence and getting benevolence. But it's hard for single mothers. Nan Zhou is so calm and chic because she has a stable job and strong support from her parents. For ordinary people, I suggest polishing your eyes before marriage.
Uncle Han's good friend Ding Yi and teacher Xiao San are good at writing about men and women. This article has been authorized.