We must keep our word in life and do it to the letter. In this way, others will think that we are honest people and others will be willing to associate with us. A person with an unknown address, a person who does not speak good faith, will never be respected by others.
The same is true in family life, especially the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. However, many mother-in-law did not do this. They cheat their daughter-in-law as well as their daughter-in-law. Especially before their daughter-in-law got married, they promised her a lot of things, but they didn't keep them after they got married, or cheated her in other ways.
As a mother-in-law, you should understand that when your daughter-in-law marries your family, you will become a family, and you should treat her sincerely.
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After graduating from Wang Ru University, she felt very happy. She thinks that after graduating from college, she can earn money. Not only does she no longer have to spend her parents' money, but she can also give them the money she earned so that they are not as tired as before.
Wang Ru's parents are really tired these years. Their bodies are not particularly strong, they can't do particularly heavy physical work, and their income is naturally not very high. Wang Ru also has a younger brother named Wang Jun, and both of them have excellent academic performance. But they did spend a lot of money on their parents when they went to school.
Wang Ru returned to his hometown and soon found a suitable job. At this time, many people came to Wang Rugu to introduce her boyfriend.
Wang Ru's parents sincerely said to those people, "We don't want anything, as long as the boy is kind to Wang Ru".
Later, Wang Ru met a boy named Tian Bin through blind date. Both of them graduated from university and studied the same major, so the conversation was particularly speculative. Soon, the two established a love relationship.
When two people get along in the future, they really love each other. After dating for three months, they began to talk about marriage. They all think that getting married and living together will be particularly happy, so they have plans to get married in the short term.
Tian Bin's family conditions are not very good, so it is impossible to buy a house in full. However, Tian Bin's parents have worked for so many years, and they still have some savings. They still have no pressure to give Tian Bin a loan to buy a house.
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Tian Bin's mother said to Wang Ru, "I won't buy you a house. If you really love Tian Bin, you should understand us. You can live happily without a house. Don't let it ruin your love. " .
Wang Ru didn't expect Tian Bin's mother to say so much. She doesn't know what to say. She nodded stupidly in agreement. She said to Tian Bin's mother, "You don't have to buy a house, just give our family a bride price of 60,000 yuan. And wedding gifts, you have to give it to Tian Bin and me. ".
In Wang Ru, girls get married with a bride price of 30,000 yuan and 60,000 yuan. In general, the two sides discuss it, and there is no special fixed amount. Wang Ru thinks Tawada Bin's family wants some bride price. In that case, their parents' life will be better.
Tian Bin's mother doesn't want to give a bride price of 60,000 yuan, she just wants to give a bride price of 30,000 yuan. She rolled her eyes and nodded in agreement. "Well, I'll give you 60 thousand bride price and gift money when you get married."
Before marriage, if a girl doesn't ask her husband to buy a house, the boy's mother must be grateful to the girl because she is really sensible.
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Soon, the day came when Wang Ru and Tian Bin got married. On the wedding day, many relatives and friends came. They all praised Wang Ru and Tian Bin as a natural couple. With the blessing of relatives and friends, the wedding was held smoothly.
On the second day of the wedding, Wang Ru's mother-in-law came to Wang Ru's house, and then she gave Wang Ru a wedding present and a bill. "I will do what I promise you. This is a gift and a bill, both for you. "
Wang Ru looked at the bill carefully and counted the gifts carefully. Suddenly, she found that the gift money was 30 thousand yuan less. "Mom, the amount of money doesn't match the bill, and the amount of money is 30 thousand yuan less."
"Our local bride price is 30,000 yuan. Before getting married, you have to ask me for 60,000 yuan, so I have to deduct an extra 30,000 yuan from the gift, "said Wang Ru's mother-in-law.
Wang Ru didn't expect to meet such a mother-in-law. She felt so desperate that she even had the idea of divorce.
As a mother-in-law, don't play tricks on your daughter-in-law. If you do that, she will divorce your son.
Wang Ru is a very nice girl. As a mother-in-law, when you meet such a good girl, you should cherish her. However, Wang Ru's mother-in-law played with her. Wang Ru gave Wang Rugu a bride price of 60,000 yuan before marriage, and deducted 30,000 yuan from the gift money after marriage. It is shameless of her to do so.
As a mother-in-law, what you say to your daughter-in-law must be fulfilled, and it must be fulfilled to the letter. Only in this way will she respect you.