I have a friend in Xunyang. She said that if they get married there, they can give her parents 40,000 to 50,000 yuan, but they should give her relatives 5,000 yuan, including uncles, menses, uncles, aunts, cousins, grandparents and grandparents. Anyway, as long as it is related to her, one family will give her 5 thousand yuan, saying it is to save face for the woman, so that the man will have face! I find it hard to believe. Isn't this spending money to buy face? I am from Shaanxi, too. My relatives gave me gifts when I got married, and no one wanted to give them to my relatives.