Professor Shen, Professor Xiao and Professor Lin Nansheng ... Every role is a vivid and three-dimensional existence, and Zhu Yilong was once gentle and humble.

Zhu Yilong in The Events of Life became a man with a flat head, big shorts and a rough and dark skin who spoke Wuhan dialect.

Gentle, he suddenly became ugly.

"Life events" are what made him like this.

Life and death is the biggest thing in a person's life. Life and death are out of control and unpredictable. In the traditional ethics of China people, death seems to be an ominous thing, which is hard to declare. It seems too straightforward to say "death" directly.

1

When I was a child, I also heard from my family that "the deceased has become a star in the sky."

Thousands of years of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism have deeply influenced future generations. We always take a negative and deceptive attitude towards death, and we can't even mention it in words.

Influenced by Christianity in the west, their views on death are far more positive than ours. People in China are so secretive about death that they can't accept it in their daily life and are "kind" to death. In the face of death, they show more fear than accept it realistically.

So in the movie, Xiaowen's grandmother's death was never explained directly, but was replaced by a star.

The theme of this film is also about the funeral profession-undertaker. My friend also recommended a "heritage sorter", which I haven't had time to look at.

I wrote a movie "Cadre" before, which was made in Japan. Here is the entrance: "farewell teacher": let the deceased say goodbye in the most beautiful way.

Mo Sanmei (Zhu Yilong), a funeral worker, has been engaged in the funeral industry for generations.

I was in prison for fighting for my girlfriend, but when I came out, I found that my girlfriend was married to the opponent who was fighting, and my head was green.

His own house, Torre has been reluctant to transfer to himself, and has always regarded himself as his second brother.

At the beginning of the film, I gave Grandma Xiaowen a funeral. The old man lost his ring and was framed as a thief.

I have my own funeral, my neighbors have a wedding, and the hearse stops at my door, and my neighbors don't like it.

Seeing off Xiaowen's grandmother, Xiaowen in casual clothes chased him for his grandmother and made a scene in the funeral home.

Third sister is pure and unlucky.

Xiaowen, there are no parents, only one grandmother.

One day, when she woke up, grandma never opened her eyes again. She watched the third sister's car drag her grandmother away, asked for directions everywhere with a red tassel gun and cried for her grandmother.

The child knows nothing about life and death except that grandma was taken away by the third sister's car.

Xiaowen found Third Sister and stubbornly believed that Third Sister had taken Grandma away and put her in a black box, so she became entangled with Third Sister.

Third sister, an unlucky girl, has never met a satisfactory thing since Xiaowen entangled him, and her life has been disturbed by chickens and dogs.

Xiaowen, in order to find a black box for grandma, made a scene in the funeral home; Graffiti destroyed the urn customized by the family of the deceased.

But what he didn't expect was that the child's graffiti only comforted the parents of the dead little girl.

People will become stars when they die.

Those who leave will become stars to accompany us.

After Xiaowen made a scene in the funeral home, Third Sister couldn't bear it any longer and told Xiaowen's grandmother that she had been burned to death and turned into smoke, and she flew away and couldn't come back.

Xiaowen began to cry.

When a child is told for the first time that the person who has been with her in life will never appear again, she has lost the ability of adults to deal with emotions and can only express everything with the most straightforward and simple tears.

1

Death has always been covered up by adults in beautiful language and not announced directly to their mouths.

The third sister's concealment made Xiaowen directly face the fact that grandma died. From now on, no one loves her anymore. Because she has no parents, only grandma hurts.

Xiaowen in custom urn, she whispered:

"Will she be a star, too?"

Xiaowen really believes that the dead will become stars in the sky, and everyone is shocked.

When Third Sister saw the child's graffiti urn, she thought that the family of the deceased would be furious, but instead of thinking about each other, she felt a little comforted.

Third sister also suddenly found that a mortician can give people a little comfort in sad moments, but this profession is not so annoying and unlucky.

Xiaowen lost her grandmother and was rejected by her only uncle and aunt. He is tough in appearance and soft in heart, so he took Xiaowen home.

When I was at my uncle's house, my uncle asked Xiaowen if she wanted to stay here or follow Third Sister. Xiaowen ran to Sanmei without hesitation.

Xiaowen's arrival slowly changed Sanmei's life. Xiaowen became the person who was guarded and taken care of. Xiaowen let him know the responsibility and responsibility on his shoulders, and Sanmei gradually became reliable and mature.

Xiaowen is young, but clever.

The neighbor next door cynically satirized the third sister, and Xiaowen asked the neighbor's son to perform "the dutiful son hits the bowl" in the kindergarten.

After learning about this, Third Sister didn't get angry, but bowed with Xiaowen to apologize to the people present. Let her know that she did something wrong. This gentle way of education is the mature solution to the problem of Third Sister.

Xiaowen said that Third Sister is a kind of star. Xiaowen knows that Third Sister lied to her, but Grandma will never see her again. But she is not afraid anymore, because she has a father.

Xiaowen was successfully adopted to the third sister's house, and the family took good care of her.

I never thought that one day, my own mother would come to you. It turns out that the biological mother didn't die, just because she couldn't find it abroad. It is reasonable for her mother to find her daughter.

However, the relationship between Xiaowen and Sanmei has already taken root, and Xiaowen is used to Sanmei's father.

He reluctantly sent her away in the heavy rain, but Xiaowen disappeared and found Third Sister's home all the way: going to heaven.

We say the best thing is two-way love.

The mutual healing and fulfillment of the two people enabled Sanmei to find a sense of professional identity step by step, regain her responsibility and responsibility, and become a truly mature adult.

Third Sister held an "Emperor's Funeral" for Grandma Xiaowen's ex-wife and tried her best. Give it to the ex-girlfriend's husband, restore his broken body and let his family see his son for the last time; The topic left by my father: Where should the ashes go?

Look for the best answer.

I like the last gorgeous fireworks very much.

Despite the obstruction of the elder sister, the third sister mixed her father's ashes with fireworks, and the most splendid fireworks bloomed by the river where the second brother died. At this time, her father's life completed its greatest bloom.

At the end of life, it can be so bright.

When I saw this place, I thought, if only I died in the future. At the moment of death, many people can feel beautiful and bright fireworks.

Xiaowen also won the love of relatives other than grandma and learned to express her love for others in her own way.

I have no intention of comparing this movie with other movies. This movie is not about death, but about being alive.

Facing death is never a very difficult thing.

But it's hard to accept the departure of people around you, and then get up again and move on.

Everyone will get used to the company. We say that companionship is a very warm thing, and everyone wants to go to the end of life together if possible.

If there is a heaven in the world, we will still be together there.

However, in China culture, we all go to Naiheqiao, drink Mengpo soup and go to the grave.

Those naive and sincere thoughts will only stay in childhood.

Just like when I was a child, I looked at the stars in the sky and thought that they were all bought by my relatives around me and would accompany me every night.

It's naive.

Nothing is important in life except death.

Since you can't choose to die, then choose to live the next day well, happy or unhappy, sad or not.

I never have to talk about death, my suicide note has already been written, and my body's signature has already been arranged.

Man's life is very short, even shorter for the vast universe. But for myself, life is long enough.

Re-examine the matter of death, rediscover what kind of life you want to live, re-recognize what you want to do next, and face each new day seriously.

If you haven't thought about all this, I hope you are happy and healthy every day.

Because the most important thing in life is to live well and live well.