First, men's psychology and routines

Many wives originally took the initiative to attack after discovering that their husbands were in trouble, but because they didn't understand men's psychology and routines, they accidentally fell into the trap dug by men, some suffered repeated betrayal, and some were forced to accept a threesome.

1. When you found him abnormal, he had been cheating for some time.

When a man just has a woman outside, he feels guilty and is afraid that you will know, so he will hide it well and it is difficult for you to find clues. By the time you realize that there is something wrong with him, he has been out of line for some time. At this time, whether he admits it or not, you should take immediate measures.

Second, I want to win your forgiveness.

He prepared all the statements after the showdown in advance.

When his scandal is revealed by you and you have to face it, he may apologize to you and admit his mistake. I may cry and repent with you, or I may swear to you, write you a letter of commitment and so on. It seems sincere, but in fact these statements are probably prepared by him to win your forgiveness. But as long as you forgive him easily, you see, it won't be long before he does it again.

Third, don't give men time to deal with it.

3, saying that breaking up takes time is actually procrastination.

Other men will tell you when the scandal is exposed and his wife asks him to break up with his lover immediately: "I will definitely break up, but I hope you will give me some time to deal with it." Once you promise him, the result is that he does not deal with it, but contacts his lover more frequently. When you ask him for an explanation again, he will still ask you, "Didn't you agree to give me time? What's the hurry? " At this time, you are completely passive.

So, when you find a man cheating, don't keep it secret easily. You must think about the countermeasures first, or you will be caught by his routine.