I think marriage is the union of two families. As long as we trust each other, respect each other, care about each other, and get the blessings of both parents, our lives will basically be happier.

In the past, the wedding ceremony had a strong sense of existence. In order to announce the combination of the two, I hope to get the blessings of my relatives and friends. Nowadays, marriage seems to have changed its flavor. It pays more attention to the gift money than the sense of ceremony. Some parents even call a spade a spade: "If I hadn't recovered the gift money I sent out before, I wouldn't have bothered to entertain guests for ostentation and extravagance. I was tired for a few days. "

In that case, I think I might as well put aside the formal baggage and leave the most important good memories in my life in a way that belongs to only two people.