Most people's wedding patterns are the same, because most people are ordinary people, and century weddings such as star princes are out of reach for the public.
More sadly, ordinary people often have no active choice about the wedding form they want. Because they have too much to think about and can't do whatever they want.
I've been to many weddings, and some people are actually unfamiliar to me. I don't even know each other's names and looks. At this time, besides watching the excitement of the wedding, I still sit still more often.
Don't call me cold-blooded. I really don't feel anything, and I don't think I should feel anything either. Although the wedding is very festive, it has nothing to do with me.
Of course, if it is your close friend's wedding, that is another matter.
What impressed me the most was the wedding of one of my primary school classmates. She was my best friend in primary school. After class, we are inseparable and often go to each other's home to do homework, draw pictures and play together. In a word, she is one of the best memories of my primary school.
Later, we have been in a junior high school and a high school. Although not in the same class, there are still some connections. Although we are not inseparable as before, our feelings are still there.
On her wedding day, she was very busy, and it was difficult for me to talk to her, but I stood so far away and watched her put on white gauze, which was very touching.
The moment the spotlight hit her, emotional music sounded, and my husband kissed her lightly. She showed a shy and happy smile, and I burst into tears in an instant.
There are many pictures in my mind.
In elementary school, she had neat short hair and super developed motor cells. She often jumps up and down like a monkey. She can climb to the flagpole in the blink of an eye and play the horizontal bar with ease. She dares to play with everything that girls dare not play with, so she dares to try everything that boys play with. I often think that she had a particularly pure and wild beauty at that time.
In junior high school, in a dance class, the teacher actually regarded her as a boy, so she decided to repent, restrain her wildness and start to grow long hair. Since then, no one has ever treated her as a boy.
In high school, she sometimes pretended to be quiet and dignified, but her crazy energy was burning all the time. She is such a person, she stands there, you can't ignore her existence, she will always bring you some unexpected and interesting things, experiences, ideas and creativity. She is not that kind of boring girl. She will be willing to show her cutest and truest side and share what she likes with everyone.
So she is loved by many girls. Girls like to stick to her and run around her.
It is such a girl who used to climb trees like the Monkey King. On such a day, she got married.
In front of the right person, she exudes that girlish beauty.
She really grew up, the little girl I remember.
How can I not cry?
I don't know how many people would feel the same way at that time, but with so many people in the audience, how many faces could she really recognize?
A wedding lasts about two hours. How much did we pay for these two hours?
I booked a banquet 1 year in advance when I got married. It's a good place and a good day. After that, I began to decorate the house. It's tiring to decorate and buy things at home, so I won't show them here. Later, I took wedding photos and was slaughtered by all kinds of people. Then I went to the so-called wedding company to communicate. As a result, at the wedding, I got my name wrong in various situations. When I walked down the red carpet, the stereo didn't even ring. I can only use four words to describe the disc I shot at that time, and I can't bear to watch it.
That's it. The family worked hard to prepare for the wedding for more than a year, and then, and then it was like this.
On the wedding day, I stood on the stage and looked at the faces of the audience. I think it's strange.
We waited for the guests for a long time, so the wedding was delayed a little, but the people below were hungry, so many people had already started eating when our ceremony officially began.
Then my wedding host was still saying something on the stage, and I was laughing (I felt my face was stiff with laughter that day). I don't think anyone is listening because they are all hungry and busy eating.
At that moment, I suddenly felt that my wedding and my marriage had nothing to do with these people, but why are they here?
After the wedding, her mother-in-law breathed a sigh of relief and said that she was finally busy.
I'm relieved, because I can't laugh anymore.
Later, I asked my elders why they had a wedding reception, and their answer was, because they had to collect money!
I understand, but isn't a large part of the recovered money spent on inviting wedding companies to hold wedding banquets? Moreover, the food at the wedding banquet will never be delicious, because it is mass-produced and will be lower than the usual level of the hotel. You can't ignore the drama that is short of weight. What is even more puzzling is that most people turn a blind eye to the ultimate huge waste of food, but wisdom takes it for granted.
There is also the cost of alcohol and tobacco. I don't know why people who drink so happily are happy. There is also a group of people who are related to colleagues. They toasted each other without wasting any chance to contribute their attention.
I am very confused. Later, after attending various weddings, I found that I felt the same way about people I didn't know very well. I feel so hungry, too. I hope the wedding will be over soon. As I said before, it's none of my business.
In He Wei's Oracle Bone Inscriptions, he described one of his students, Emily's views on the wedding:
I think this description of the wedding is very accurate.
So, if no one has ever held a wedding, I will give you a little advice, that is, don't let this bloated and complicated wedding ruin all your dreams about the wedding.
As for what kind of wedding form to choose, you have to be creative and courageous (you have to face the ideas of the older generation).
Why does such a complicated, time-consuming and labor-intensive wedding still exist?
I don't know, maybe everyone has different ideas! But I think in the future, more people will change their ideas and choose a relaxed, pleasant and meaningful wedding form.