In fact, in my opinion, this behavior is quite normal. Many people think that since they are husband and wife, they should sleep in a bed every day, but now many middle-aged couples sleep in separate rooms, which is also common in cities and rural areas. Most people may think that there is something wrong with their relationship, but it is not, mainly for these reasons.

One: Old people should help look after children.

Whether in rural areas or cities, young people at home generally go out to work, and their children are taken care of by the elderly at home. But children often need to get up in the middle of the night to nurse, regardless of day and night. If two people sleep together, getting up in the middle of the night will definitely disturb each other, and both of them can't rest well, so they still sleep in separate rooms.

Two: the living habits of both sides are different.

You may be able to adapt when you are young, but after middle age, because you are older, you will sleep less and may be awakened by a little noise. Some people like to go to the toilet in the middle of the night, and some people snore, which is likely to keep another person awake. Sleeping in separate rooms will solve these problems and be more free.

Three: no passion, become more like relatives.

Some couples have lost their original passion because they have been together for a long time. The relationship between two people is more like relatives. After all, after decades together, there are still very few couples who can maintain love all the time. Therefore, the feelings between husband and wife have changed and become more like relatives, mainly taking a rest.

In fact, in my opinion, many couples sleep in separate rooms, which is not an emotional problem, but a manifestation of expressing their love for each other. After all, rest is the most important.