You found the right person for this friend. I am from Yan 'an. But I am from Luochuan, and I don't know where your girlfriend is. To tell the truth, women who get married here make money, and adopted daughters make money. Few people lose money. Unless the family is very good and despises your money, the polarization between the rich and the poor in Yan' an is very serious, and the poor can't open the pot. Rich people are rich people, just like our county. Generally, when they get married, the man will spend at least 80,000 yuan. Now it is generally 654,300. This girl is really not much, hehe, but he is married, which is really unfair to you. You can think about it. I think it should be your girlfriend who insists on 3 1800, otherwise his family won't be so firm. You have to think about this yourself. The poorer the place, the more you want to get rich by women. The education and culture in poor places are not good in all aspects and the quality is low. Brother, you'd better think more. There are thousands of children in China, Qian Qian, but you can't find a really suitable one. Shandong girl is good, generous and beautiful. But think again, your girlfriend's family earned it. If the money is really given, his family will not earn 40 thousand. Cautious brother