Actually, now? Need an old man? Phenomenon and before? Need an old man? There is an essential difference, before? Someone who needs it? That really means spending all my parents' money. Now? Someone who needs it? It's not that they are idle, but that after they get a job, they still don't have enough money and need the support of their parents. These are two different concepts.
In the past, we advocated that young people should be self-reliant, and many people can do it, but now it is too difficult for young people to be self-reliant. Do it. Self-reliance? Not bad, but want it? Rehabilitation? That's harder than going to heaven. In fact, there are still many people interested. Someone who needs it? Prejudice. What I want to say is, where don't you need money now? Young people should have no problem supporting themselves and their children. Although the pressure is great, I will not ask for money from my family.
It's just that the current high housing prices really make many young people breathless. Let's work out an account. Getting married needs 200,000 yuan (including all bride price), which should be a relatively low consumption. Then a down payment for a house needs 500,000 yuan, and a car needs about130,000 yuan. We don't want a very good car, so let's calculate it as an ordinary car, and we need 830 thousand in total.
In fact, young people nowadays want it? Need an old man? However, I don't think this is called old age, but family unity. In the past, self-reliance was advocated, and all children supported the elderly, which was appropriate. But now times have changed. Compared with before, the parents of the parents' generation are getting better and better. Many young people's parents are under 50 years old, and they still have a certain ability to work and are in good health. The situation now is that if they rely on only one person to support their families, it is really not. ?