In Shangqiu, there is a custom of blind date, and the matchmaker takes the man and the bride price to the woman's house. In fact, there should be new ways of love between men and women in the new era. If both men and women are really sure and both are in the city, it is best to make an appointment with their parents and find a good hotel to meet. Bride gifts and other things should be innovative, and they should be chosen according to their own abilities and the needs of each other.