Be sure to find all kinds of reasons to refuse. For example, if you are too busy to spare time, or if you are ill, you will say that you are divorced and can't be a bridesmaid, which will bring her bad luck. In a word, you must refuse. Whatever the reason, you must refuse. I haven't been in touch for so long. Well, after that, both you and she will feel embarrassed. The wedding was full of people he and her husband knew or relatives. You are an outsider, not to mention how uncomfortable it will be.

I didn't say no before, although I thought it would be embarrassing. I remember that at that time, my junior high school classmates asked me to be a bridesmaid. In junior high school, we shared a dormitory. Although we have been together for three years, to be honest, my relationship with her is not very good, because she is a bit unsociable in character and she is not very good with us when she is with her partner. She stopped working after graduating from junior high school and then stopped contacting us. Later, she called me and said that she was getting married and asked me to be her maid of honor. At that time, I was very reluctant, but I didn't get rid of success for various reasons, and finally I crustily skin of head.

I really regret it after I went there. When I got there, she picked me up. She spoke to me affectionately, but I was very uncomfortable. I spent a lot of money talking to her, and I didn't know what to say. I just, uh ... answered her. I still don't know what she said. Later, when the banquet was held, all the people there were people she and her husband knew, and I didn't know anyone. When it was over, I left in a hurry.

When such a thing happens, everyone must refuse, otherwise it will be really embarrassing. Trust me, or you will regret it.