Bride's side
1. Chinese New Year is when the bride's family tells the groom your birthday and goes back to calculate the wedding day. The naked point is to talk about marriage and money. This is the decision of the two families, no matter how much. It's not malicious to ask the son-in-law to make more trips to show that he is more expensive. It was agreed that 10 thousand, the old father-in-law wanted 12 thousand, and the son-in-law came back two days later. Generally, he doesn't give integers, he wants 10 thousand, and he gives one less.
2。 The woman's house is placed at the bottom of the box, and so on. You can ask the aunts around you to pay attention to a few points. Odds and ends can go directly to the store to buy wedding supplies, which are available in all towns and villages. In the era of Qingkou, just go to the store to buy a statistical table of items and take it with you when you get married.
Quilts, household appliances, etc. It was all discussed by your two families. Some of them were bought by themselves, and some were bought by the groom.
3。 Treating the woman and going to the happy grave depends on her family. Usually the day before the wedding.
4. Pack boxes at night. In the past, some of them were locked in furniture. Now, we all use red suitcases. After dinner at night, my uncle or something will give me some money to press my waist, and my parents will give me some fruit or something. It is necessary to smoke candy. Friends who make trouble in the bridal chamber will make trouble in the end. It doesn't matter how much better they can bring, they can show off their parents' atmosphere to you. After loading, it is locked. Before going to the groom's house, I sent my relatives and left the old woman to pinch the lock and open it.
Some nights, the groom will come over to discuss what to pay attention to tomorrow, who will see the bride off, how many children, and how many tables to prepare.
6. Make it up the next morning or something. . . . . .
7. The groom came to sit and drink sugar water or something, and took a photo when he left. The two of them ate four happy dishes. I think it was my sister-in-law before I got on the bus. Look in the mirror and twist some paper around the car to ward off evil spirits. Whoever goes out to sprinkle some wheat seedlings and help change shoes in the car means that she will not occupy her own land and become another one. Usually, your brother helps you carry your shoes and change them for you. This is not for nothing. My brother-in-law has to give money, ranging from a few hundred. Take a little boy to sit with you, and the maid of honor will sit in the front, help you carry the lamp, prepare coins and cross the bridge.
8. When you arrive, the family will put a whip to let the groom's family know that you have arrived. Get in the car when you get home. Someone will invite you to discuss with the bridesmaid the money to get off the bus, the money at the bottom of the box and so on.
The groom's side
1. There is nothing to say about the house, except that it is properly cleaned up.
2. Speaking of checking the year, one more sentence. Everyone wants to choose a good day, preferably six months in advance, so that other uncertain factors can occur.
3. Hotel reservations and wedding photos should be prepared in advance, especially in hotels. Now the people who rob hotels in the county can do it a few months in advance, and the family is still busy. They also take care of food for a long time and arrange multiple tables. After the hotel determines the number of tourists, it is generally necessary to prepare two tables to prevent entry and exit.
Everything to buy is big, furniture and home appliances. Let's discuss how much this is.
5. Count the number of invitations, find a better one and draw casually in his junior high school culture. Most of them take a younger brother to help you pull your shoulders and go to your aunt's house to inform you when to come to the wedding banquet. Generally, everyone will get a younger brother and give him a 30-50 degree promotion. Don't forget to give him some if he goes. There is also the operation of going to the happy grave, and parents will also go.
6. Have friends at home to help you decorate, pull a flower and post a happy one. I forgot to buy some baby photos for the bedroom.
7. Warm house wine, call a few relatives and friends to help, and sit down the night before to assign tomorrow's work. Go to the bride's house if necessary.
When I come back, I set off firecrackers to make a bed, which is usually made by my uncle. It also depends on how you decide to check the year. Several children helped me roll a bed, distributed money and peanuts, and said some auspicious words while laying. Jujube, peanuts, longan and chestnuts are placed in the corner of the quilt, which means early birth. Leave a child to sleep with you.
On a sunny day, not everyone in the greenhouse agreed to take those people to meet their relatives. The people who set off firecrackers at home, the route arrangement and the angular places around the house are all wrapped in red paper, all made by friends, and they also bring umbrellas, flowers and gold. I want to arrange who will bring the cigarettes and candy, and keep them for later use. I will put the whip when I leave, when I arrive, and when I go home.
9. When you get to the bride's house, it's not so easy to pick you up. The bride's good sisters will make things difficult for you. Do whatever the old man tells you to do, wash clothes, cook, get paid, and then pick you up first. In the case of good performance, there were the most people at that time, followed by cigarettes, sugar and mouths, and there was nothing shameful. It is also said in the photo of eating vegetables. Don't forget the money for changing shoes.
10. The way back is too heavy. Most of them come from the south. Generally, the bride will slap her head with someone and stick a piece of red paper across the bridge. This person also needs to be taken care of. Put a whip when you go home and let the family pick it up.
165438+ A friend with a dowry will help you move it. Just hold the pillow in the room by yourself. Someone there discussed with the bridesmaid to get off the bus and get the money at the bottom of the box. The light in the bridesmaid's hand is the weight. When the light shone into the house, the bride went in. As mentioned above, a small piece of paper came out of the room and walked around the car. The old woman twisted the lock.
12. It's different when you enter the door. If a new person comes in, he will cover the door with a quilt and deal with it according to the actual situation. There must be friends blocking the door. If you get married, make a scene. If you refuse it, you can't, but never be stingy with that cigarette. Don't make everyone unhappy. Friends are fun. Look around at the lively pine candy peanuts and so on.
13. Take a rest and help the bride make comfort noodles at home. Everyone in the family should eat something to make up.
14. Open the table to drink, go through the motions and make a toast. Now some people in the hotel just pay for a toast and don't have to salute the next day.
15. If you make trouble in the bridal chamber, those who will make trouble will first put a whip and light candles. Now there are fewer bridesmaids and more bridesmaids. Don't be angry, just try to pester them. It will be a happy thing to find the wedding CD after many years. Friends left, cigarettes and sugar were taken away. They can do whatever they like.
I have seen all the above. There are still considerable differences in customs in some parts of Ganyu, depending on the actual situation. Where there are differences, I hope you can add more! In the future, we will learn more about how to hold a wedding.