Why do Chaoshan people get married in the early morning? 1, traditional customs
In traditional wedding customs, in some areas, the wedding time should be avoided during the day and chosen at night. Therefore, when the groom picks up the bride, he will choose to work at night. This is a custom since ancient times and is still observed in some areas.
2. Geographical location
In ancient times, in some areas, the geographical position outside was not good, Filipinos were rampant, and when someone married, Filipinos would rob relatives. In order to avoid the bride being robbed, she chose to pick up the bride quietly in the middle of the night to ensure her safety.
What is the process of picking up the bride in Chaozhou at midnight? 1. The couple get up early to prepare, the bride eats breakfast and makes up, waiting for the arrival of the groom;
The bride prepares red envelopes for the relatives and friends of the groom's family and the driver's master.
3. The groom will contact the wedding motorcade and take all relatives and staff to the bride's house.
4. When the groom arrives at the bride's house, he needs to try his best to win the beauty.
After the groom enters the bride's room, he needs to present a bunch of flowers to the bride. At this time, photographers and cameramen can record beautiful moments.
6. The groom needs to find wedding shoes in the bride's room;
7. After the groom finds the wedding shoes, the relatives of the bride need to carry the bride downstairs and put it on the first car in the wedding car team;
8. At this time, the groom needs to offer tea to the bride's parents, and the bride's parents need to give the groom a red envelope;
9. When the wedding car team arrives at the new house, the relevant staff need to set off firecrackers on the road where the wedding car passes. After the wedding car arrives at the destination, the groom needs to take the bride to the wedding room;
10. When the newlyweds arrive at the wedding room, the bride needs to offer tea to the groom's parents. At this time, the groom's parents need to give the bride a red envelope as a courtesy.
Why do Chaoshan people like to pick up relatives at midnight? In Chaoshan area, relatives are picked up in the middle of the night. That's because the bride's sedan chair can't collide. Once she meets other people, the prosperity will be absorbed. There are generally no pedestrians on the road in the middle of the night, which is very suitable for picking up relatives. Besides, in Chaoshan wedding custom, the bride and groom can't talk after leaving their parents' home, and the bride can't look back. The customs in each region are different. We still have to learn to respect other people's customs. No matter what kind of custom it is, as long as it is not a bad habit, there is no reason to be spit out. Learning to respect others is also respecting yourself.