In many places, bridesmaids need to accompany gifts, because accompanying gifts represents a good blessing to the couple, so on the wedding day, whether we are ordinary friends or good girlfriends, it is appropriate to pay the bill with gifts. If you come empty-handed, it seems disrespectful to the couple. Of course, the couple and their parents will definitely have ideas in their hearts. In fact, in our country, everyone is very polite. If you prepare money, your friends will also prepare it for you when you get married.
Under normal circumstances, the bridesmaids that newcomers find are generally close to themselves and belong to good girlfriends, so the amount of gifts will be higher than that of ordinary friends and will be somewhat different from others. For example, in some areas of Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai, it is ok to be a bridesmaid without accompanying money. As far as their cognition is concerned, being a bridesmaid is a very tiring thing. They are very grateful to the bridesmaids. Instead of asking the bridesmaids for red envelopes, they will give them thanks. Therefore, whether they want money or not depends on local customs.
Matters needing attention when being a bridesmaid
1. The bridesmaid should take good care of personal belongings for the bride before the wedding, such as flowers in the bride's hand, gifts for the groom, etc., to prevent mistakes in the wedding and affect the normal progress of the wedding.
2. Bridesmaids should carefully understand some manners and customs of the man before the wedding, such as preparing gifts to express sincerity and confessing the truth to the bride. There are many ways to get married. As long as the bridesmaids fully understand, they should prepare a series of countermeasures, and it is best to come up with something for the groom to fully express his sincerity to the bride. This will give the bride enough face and make her feel happy in marriage. However, it should be noted that it must be moderate, not too difficult for the groom, and grasp the discretion.
3, bridesmaids should pay attention to carry some makeup tools, such as powder cake, eyeliner, hair clips, paper towels and so on. To prevent the bride from crying when she thinks she is going to leave her parents and get married again, and the bride's hair style is loose, which can help the bride to make up her makeup in time and prevent the bride from making a fool of herself at the wedding.
Bridesmaids should pay special attention to clothes. The bridesmaid's clothes had better be simple and decent. Don't dress too finely. Dressing too delicately will attract too much attention. After all, the focus of the wedding is the bride. Don't steal the bride's thunder.
The bridesmaid is responsible for the decoration of the wedding dress and the change of clothes worn by the bride. After the wedding, the bride should change her wedding dress into a simple dress. Ensure that the bride does not lack anything when changing clothes, which will affect the wedding.