Nowadays, wedding customs are spared no effort, and it is inevitable that people will die if they entertain guests. This is really a troublesome thing.
As for whether the Buddha's Christmas treatment is appropriate, I haven't found the exact answer yet, and I dare not sell myself short.
As for the wedding, if the master has any suggestions, you can make a reference.
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The mage's original intention is to persuade everyone not to kill. Gu Dade said freeze to death and don't climb. So, have you ever thought about how many lives were hurt when you broke the precepts, let alone revenge?