When a couple chooses a wedding date, it is called "choosing an auspicious day". After consulting both parents, it is polite for the parents of the man to prepare gifts for the woman's family. In-laws formally meet, agree on the wedding date, and seek the opinions of the woman's parents on wedding planning. The man began to decorate his new house and make preparations before marriage. Newcomers had better choose a wedding date with personality and characteristics to avoid the day of getting married together. Public holidays in April, May, September and1October are the peak of civil marriage, so we can consider avoiding them when choosing the wedding date. In this case, the services of all wedding contractors (such as restaurants, wedding companies, well-known emcees, etc.). ) It is generally more favorable and easy to book. When choosing an auspicious day, you can refer to: how to choose a memorable wedding date.
2. Hongxi hangs high in the hall
On the wedding day, the word' hi' should be posted on the husband's family, the woman's family, the new house, the ceremony hotel and the wedding banquet hall (some ethnic minorities don't post it). The word' hi' can be posted at home and indoors in advance, and others are posted on the wedding day. The word "hi" is also called "leading the way" outdoors. Generally, people are required to follow the word' hi' at the door of the community to find their home.
3. Welcome the bride and never look back
On the morning of the wedding, the groom will lead the team to meet the bride. Generally, floats will go ahead, followed by parades. After the groom arrives at her parents' house, they usually close the door and refuse to accept her husband. The bride's girlfriend blocked the door, making it difficult for the groom to beg for red envelopes and hide new shoes. "Don't look back" means "if you get married, you won't go back", and the route to your parents' home and back to the hotel ceremony can't be completely repeated. This ceremony is a custom, but also a folk custom.
4. Worship the Flower Hall before noon
"Noon" means 12 noon. According to folklore, before noon, the newlyweds will worship heaven and earth, and wish them good luck. Therefore, weddings are usually held in the morning.
5. Banquet guests from all over the world to thank them
After the wedding, a large banquet was held at noon to thank friends and relatives. The couple raised their glasses to thank them.
Come back to see Zhang Yue in six or three days.
Three days after the wedding, the couple went back to visit their parents, also known as "mothering" or "new son-in-law". The bride's family usually holds a banquet. People think that the couple should not stay long after lunch when they go home, and should get back to their husband's house before sunset.