After the matchmaker "sees" the looks of both men and women, the wedding etiquette should be "fixed" and exchange their birthdays, and the man will give the bride price to the woman for face-to-face counting. Most of the bride price is native products, Sang Ma fabrics, silks and satins, tea and so on. The more dowry the woman has, the better. Take the opportunity to show off her wealth. Weddings and subsequent visits are similar to those in the north.

Step 2 date

On the day of engagement, it is also called "tying the knot" and "spreading red". Both families should decorate their houses with lanterns, hang red lanterns, pay homage to two immortals, light red candles and treat their friends to engagement wine.

Step 3 kiss each other

On the wedding day, "Look at mom's plate" took the lead. There must be a goose on mother's table. Goose was born in ancient times and formally proposed to the woman. Because the goose's spouse is single-minded about life, it symbolizes the firmness and harmony of marriage. Later generations replaced geese with geese.

4. Match making

After the relationship between men and women is settled, the man will prepare the matchmaker to go to the woman's house to fix it up. With the consent of the woman's parents, the marriage is settled.

5. Three Dynasties Return to Lang

On the third day of the couple's wedding, the groom will take the bride back to her family and visit relatives and friends together. The bride can stay in her own house for a few days, or go back to the groom's house that evening.