One or three books
Letter of appointment, gift letter and welcome letter.
Gift book-a book exchanged when engaged.
Gift book-a book used to write a gift list, which will list the types and quantities of items in detail for everyone to check.
Welcome book-the book used by the bride when she gets married.
Second, six rites
Six rites refer to adoption, asking names, Naji, soliciting guests, inviting parties and welcoming guests.
Adoption-commonly known as matchmaking, that is, the man's family asks the matchmaker to propose marriage to the woman's family, and the woman's family promises to propose marriage, and the man's family prepares gifts to propose marriage.
Ask the name-commonly known as eight characters, ask the matchmaker for the date of birth and name of the woman to prepare for the wedding.
Najib-that is, after the man's family has a good omen, he informs the woman's family of the bride price and the marriage is preliminarily agreed.
Levi-also called a gift, the man chooses an auspicious day to hold an engagement present at the woman's house.
Invitation date-choose an auspicious day to get married. In the old days, auspicious days were usually bimonthly and bimonthly. I don't like to choose March, June, November and Wednesday, and there are scattered voices. I don't choose six because I don't want a half-life marriage; 1 1 month is full of meaning.
Kissing-On the wedding day, the man personally took the greeting book to the woman's house to marry the bride.
Taboos of Chinese weddings:
1, the bride's wedding day clothes can't have pockets, otherwise it will take away her family's wealth.
2. You can't fan on the wedding day, which means breaking up. Therefore, it is not recommended to fan the wedding day no matter how hot it is.
On the wedding day, the bride can't step on the threshold of the man's house, but must lift her feet and cross it.
Before going to bed on the wedding day, the couple can't lie in the new bed. No matter how tired they are, they must keep sleeping. If they lie down early, they will be ill in bed for a year.
On the wedding day, the couple can't say goodbye to the guests. If goodbye means remarriage, it's unlucky. Couples can just nod and wave goodbye.
6. On the wedding day, before the bride goes out, the aunt and sister-in-law should avoid giving it to each other, because the tone of these two words is lonely, sweeping and unlucky.
7. The ancients thought that March and July of the lunar calendar were the most haunted days, and it was best to avoid getting married in these two months.
9. Weddings pay attention to auspicious days, so sometimes weddings are crowded together. Therefore, if you meet another wedding convoy on the way to marry the bride, the two families must set off firecrackers, or the matchmakers of both sides exchange flowers to resolve this joy.
10. In addition, the bride must cover the road with a red umbrella before going out. Usually, the matchmaker or lucky person takes this role until the bride gets on the wedding car and enters the man's house.