It's basically rewarding ~ ~ If you get married, it's basically unprofitable to marry your daughter to Hui 'an County. Some will pay back the money, some will send the car or the shop, of course, depending on the financial resources, but now it is rare to hear that the woman will not pay back the money. As the saying goes, good in-laws have discussions, but bad in-laws will do that.
Ask your mother-in-law directly.