Because of this, many young people choose to get a license first for convenience, because they think it is too much trouble to hold a wedding, and there are many things to prepare, so they have no time and energy to complete it. There are also some young people who choose to get married simply because of economic problems, but for the elderly, marriage must be proved through the wedding, so the elderly have always asked for a grand wedding.
So should we have a wedding when we get married? I interviewed five netizens, and their views were mostly different.
Mr. Yang, 35, there is no need for a wedding.
My wife and I didn't have a wedding, but we are still living well. I think the wedding is dispensable. Anyway, we live a real life, and everyone has different ideas. Anyway, my wife and I can reach an understanding in this regard. Wedding is really a troublesome thing. It is necessary to book the venue in advance and send invitations to invite all relatives and friends to watch the ceremony. You have to prepare a lot of things before you get married. It's extremely tedious to think about it. You might as well spend that time and energy alone with your wife.
Ms. Zhou, 32 years old, it's a pity that she didn't have a wedding.
My husband and I didn't have a wedding. We were married before. At that time, our economic ability was limited and we had nothing, so we invited everyone to eat a meal. Now I feel very sorry. I think people must have a wedding when they get married. If there is no wedding, it is really a woman's lifelong regret. Every girl loves beauty very much and fantasizes that she is a bride since she was a child. It's a pity that a woman has never worn a wedding dress in her life. Maybe you don't think so now, but when you get older and watch other brides get married in style, you will feel very sad at that moment.
Miss Ma, 25, listens to her parents.
I recently discussed this issue with my boyfriend. Our opinion is that whether the wedding can be held depends on the wishes of parents. After all, parents are quite persistent in this respect. We prefer traveling, so we plan to travel together after marriage. Young people nowadays have different ideas. In the eyes of young people, the wedding is really not that important, the most important thing is to live a good life. What's more, most people want to turn marriage into a matter of two people, so everyone is not so concerned about whether to hold a wedding.
Mr. Pan, 30 years old, has no wedding, so he owes less.
I had a wedding with my wife, and I was really busy. I feel very tired when I think about that time. People say that marriage is happy, but my wife and I often quarrel over those things. Later, I felt that there was nothing wrong with not having a wedding, at least it didn't have to be so hard and there would be no contradiction. Many colleagues around me didn't have a wedding. Actually, it's quite convenient, and you don't have to owe people money. I think it's better this way. If everyone has a wedding, the money collected will affect their feelings.
Mr. Wang Lao, 63, was really married at the wedding.
Of course, there is a wedding when you get married. If you don't have a wedding, who knows you are married? Nowadays, young people have a simple idea that getting a marriage certificate can solve all problems. In our old people's eyes, only a wedding is a formal marriage. Even if you two get a marriage certificate, if you haven't had a wedding, it will always look closer to outsiders, so I ask my children to have a wedding resolutely. What's it like not to have a wedding?
Through the answers of the above netizens, it is not difficult to see that everyone's views on the wedding are different. For the parties, the wedding is very important, and for the onlookers, it is not bad not to have a wedding. The key lies in your own thoughts. After all, everyone wants a different life.
Do you think it is necessary to have a wedding when you get married?