Moreover, I am afraid of meeting the bad partner, which will not only hurt my feelings, but also bring a lot of distress to my later life. If you are old and can't take care of yourself in the future, you can go to a nursing home with good conditions, which is better than family life and let your children support the elderly. I also have a deep understanding of this. Once, a post-90 s girl said that she didn't want to have children when she got married. She doesn't want to be bothered by children, she just wants to enjoy life.
It is a great traditional custom of our Chinese nation to marry and have children, and it is also an outstanding achievement of the recognition and practice of 5,000-year-old historical civilization. We regard getting married and having children as a major and meaningful event in our lives, and have also created countless beautiful families. These excellent traditions of the Chinese nation are handed down from generation to generation with the family as the unit. Yes! In recent years, some female friends will feel that it doesn't matter whether they get married or not, but the reality is actually cruel, which makes you more confused than you think.
In my opinion, the basic meaning of children's existence is that when you are old, they can take care of you, entrust you to a nursing home and let the nursing home take good care of you. Taking care of you is the responsibility of nursing homes for your children.
Because of the times, children are busy with their work and life, so they don't have to take care of themselves. But after you go to a nursing home, children are your guardians and a potential force to safeguard your rights and interests. With the supervision of children, the elderly will feel more secure. Here is a real case. Some time ago, we told such a thing to netizens. Uncle Zhao Yufu, originally living at No.44 Changhua Road, Shibei District, Qingdao, is 82 years old. After the death of his wife, Ms. Duan, Uncle Zhao Yufu met Ms. Zhang, 40 years younger than himself, because her children were busy at work, and they later registered to get married. During the marriage between Uncle Zhao and Ms. Zhang, Uncle Zhao's deposit and millions of real estate were transferred to Ms. Zhang successively.
Later, Ms. Zhang and Uncle Zhao Yufu divorced. Because the house was gone and there was no deposit, Uncle Zhao Yufu had to live in a nursing home with a pension of more than 4,000 yuan. Now Uncle Zhao Yufu said with deep feelings, "I'm fine in a nursing home now. The staff in the nursing home take care of me like relatives, and my son often takes time to visit me. It is a kind of happiness to have a son. Therefore, whether your children support you or not, having children is different from not having children. They must be your confidence and protector. "