Marriage is a great event for both men and women, especially for a woman. If there is no wedding ceremony, she always feels something is missing, which is also a pity. Therefore, you should discuss it between you. If the woman asks, this marriage should not be rejected by the man's family, unless both parties feel that it is okay not to hold a wedding. If one party wants to hold this kind of wedding, the other party should cooperate. If there is still disagreement on this point, I think you may not live any longer.