A few days ago, a friend from my hometown called me. Said he was married and I wanted to go back.

I simply cleaned up and went straight back.

Why do I insist on going back to my hometown to attend my friend's wedding?

Although there are fellow villagers who grew up playing together, there are also blood relations. But that's never the most important thing.

The important thing is that you can study.

Through attending a friend's wedding these days, I learned the following.

Friends and the bride were introduced and decided on the wedding after a few days of understanding.

Post it and set a wedding date.

Then send an invitation.

New home decoration, new furniture purchase. Entertain guests.

Please invite competent people in the same village to hold the wedding.

Neighbors also came to help.

The groom should pay more attention. From buying new furniture to decorating, from entertaining guests to setting the table, to seeing off at the back, there is also concern for peers.

The bride price in rural areas is still very high.

And I heard a brother who had been married for several years say in the car. In fact, the most important thing in marriage is not the bride price and other materials. After marriage, two people who live together can live well without bad feelings.

Marriage customs vary from village to village.

My friend got married this time because a custom did not reach what the old man in the woman's village said. But it doesn't matter. After all, we young people are not interested in these customs and will not care too much.

Although marriage customs are the most important, those before marriage are not worth mentioning. Moreover, in terms of customs, experienced people in the village have the ability to handle it.

The bride talked about what it was like to get married-excited, excited or excited. Other psychological activities, no.

Compared with brides in cities, girls in cities are more sensitive to marriage because of their cultural differences from rural areas. And I care most about getting married, otherwise there will be no couples who broke up in 1 year and1year.

My hometown is still very keen on marriage. (Mainly young people of the same age as the groom) But the news says that it won't be like this if you get married seriously.

All the young people here know that.

1! No matter how noisy, the woman can't stand it.

2! Although some of our young people are keen on marriage, there are always a few reasonable people who won't make it worse.

3! Girls here are not sensitive to customs like marriage. In contrast, girls in cities are generally a little indifferent to these customs.

First of all, marriage is a great event for the bride and groom, and the size of the banquet is also face-saving for both men and women.

Secondly, drinking for the guests also has a certain effect on the groom. There is some truth in the sentence "the more you drink, the more you drink".

After the groom got married, he began to build a personal network. Hosting young people of the same age is also beneficial for the groom to establish his own relationship.

Of course, some people get drunk at the wine table. Being drunk with guests is the most important thing, although it is to cultivate relationships.

And a banquet to get a friend, although it is an ideal idea, but everyone will be more related. This is not owned by young people, but the law owned by this society.

I found that those young people of the same age. The handling of the world is still rational.

Some friends do have something I need to learn.

For example, some people are naughty to anyone. Although we can't learn it completely, we can learn from it to some extent. There are some people who handle things more rationally than I do, and these can be learned.

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