Therefore, I have the following views to share with you:
First, find a suitable opportunity to communicate with my mother-in-law. Although we have become a family, we can't not have a wedding just because we get married, so I suggest you find a suitable opportunity to communicate with your mother-in-law and ask her why she treats you like this, so as to better solve the problems between two people, otherwise it will easily make you misunderstand her.
Second, show your attitude. Although the mother-in-law is an elder and an object worthy of our respect, we should also take care of our feelings and show our attitude to her, otherwise she will be easily bullied by others and even have no position in this family. Because there has been such a case around me, after my sister and brother-in-law finished the marriage certificate, my mother-in-law went back on her word and refused to let them hold the wedding, so my sister went back to her mother's house on the spot and waited for her mother-in-law to find her actively before persuading her to go home.
Wedding is also a form of marriage. It may be acceptable to those who don't care, but it is a serious blow to those who care and value it. How many times will we have in our lives? First time? The first wedding, the first birth, the first run away from home and the first divorce are all beautiful and cruel, but we can change the status quo, so we need to take the initiative and express our views boldly. I hope everyone can adopt this idea.