Meeting ceremony, the girl went to the man's house for the first time, and the meeting ceremony given by her in-laws was 3000-10000,4000, which was not low.

The bride price, 20000- 100000, is said to be to buy cloth for the woman to make clothes and buy a dowry. 40 thousand is not low.

Boarding ceremony, when the girl got married, was organized by her two brothers, which was handed down from the old times. Not many people want this now. 3000- 10000, even higher.

There are many more. I don't want them now. If he asks you for it, it means that this woman doesn't really care about you.