There are many similarities between the two marriage and family dramas.
? For example, the heroine is a small jasper with a good face, a good background, a little melodramatic and lofty; For example, the male protagonists are simple and kind, crude and refined, naturally stubborn, and a little macho traditional China men; For example, there are many children in both families, and chickens fly and dogs jump everywhere every day, which is very heartbreaking.
? But even though there are many similarities, these two classic and highly acclaimed TV dramas give people the opposite impression.
? In The Love of Parents, Jiang Defu and An Jie's life is full of fun and happiness, despite the constant noise and commotion. In Golden Marriage, Tong Zhi and Wen Li have gone through 50 years of ups and downs, and the twists and turns in their lives are exhausting.
Golden wedding is too realistic. Typical realistic works span different periods of China's development, from iron and steel smelting, the Cultural Revolution, reform and opening up to SARS, and depict the life changes of ordinary people for decades in historical changes. I won a lot of awards in the golden wedding year, which can be said to have a certain social impact. "Parents' Love" is a realistic coat, which is essentially the same as the cool drama that the overbearing president fell in love with me. Miss capitalists and senior officers who escaped the movement lived a happy life as a prince and princess on the island. "Parents' Love won few awards, because there are too many social contradictions to avoid, and there is no depth.
Wen Li in "Golden Marriage" was also a young literary woman like Anjie when she was young. She likes reading novels and is sentimental. What makes their fates so different in middle age? The reason is simple, because Li Wen doesn't have a high-ranking husband "Jiang Defu" who can solve everything, and she doesn't have a big house. She lives in a small room, and both husband and wife have to be careful. Children should take care of themselves and deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Spending money is more important. If she is not careful, it will not be enough. She will starve for more than six years. Her children can't go to college, so they go to the factory. No one can solve the work, and life will be the same. Therefore, the young, beautiful and affectionate Wen Li finally became an annoying middle-aged woman under the destruction of life. Where's Angie There is a high-ranking husband who lives a petty bourgeoisie when ordinary people around her live in poverty. She has children to take care of, and she has the privilege to solve the work of children and relatives. She never worries about money, does not have to bear the ravages of life, and lives in the envy of people around her. How could she be unhappy? But her happiness is of little reference value to us ordinary people. In that backward, turbulent and closed era, the army was a paradise, rarely influenced by sports (for the sake of national stability), with guaranteed food and drink and high wages. Even in the 1960s when people in China were starving. In 1960s, the monthly income of cadres in regimental units was about 190 yuan, while that of ordinary people was about 30 ~ 50 yuan. Jiang Defu later became a full-time commander on the island, and his treatment was definitely much higher. Many contradictions between golden married couples are due to lack of money because they can't eat meat. In the love of parents, there is no need to worry about money for the house. There are several dishes to eat every day, and the children also have peach cakes to eat. Jiang's meat is not enough, not because they can't afford meat, but because typhoon materials can't be delivered.
It can be said that the unique social background and living environment on the island make Anjie happy, but this kind of happiness is too unique, because many people outside the island are suffering from social impact, such as the old headmaster of Qingdao Gun School in Jiang Defu and ordinary people who are worried about not having enough to eat. It can be said that Angie's happiness is set off by the misfortunes of people around her. My sisters An Xin and Ge, who have the same conditions as An Jie, have been implicated by their families and husbands, so life is not smooth. It is precisely because of this uniqueness that I say this is not the life of ordinary people. Even Jiang Defu's personal design meets the extreme blind date standards of some unmarried young women: parents are dead, and they have a car and a house. After I got married, I instantly became the wife of an officer. There is no mother-in-law relationship. I don't need to wait on sick old people. I had a baby, either a nanny or a sister-in-law. This is a perfect fairy tale life. How many people can live this life in reality? Personally, I have no contact with ordinary people.
? This is why Douban gives a higher and higher score to Parents' Love, and why more and more people like Parents' Love. There is a simple reason. Parents' love is a fairy tale, and everyone likes to watch fairy tales. Life is hard enough, and we can't breathe. Only by reading fairy tales can you fantasize about bringing yourself into that carefree life. Especially women, although most of the golden marriages are ordinary women, this does not affect their fantasy of becoming the heroine of their parents' love.
? Finally, if I have to say which drama is good, I like the golden wedding, but I also look forward to my parents' love life. We hope to be Anjie and meet Jiang Defu, who has spoiled us all our lives.